xìng shēng huó zhǐ wèile mǎn zú zì jǐ xìng xū yào de gù dìng huò bù gù dìng de xìng jiē chù hé xìng jiāo。
xìng shēng huó shì fū qī shēng huó de zhòng yào zǔ chéng bù fēn， xīn hūn shì xìng shēng huó de kāi duān， nán nǚ shuāng fāng hěn xū yào liǎo jiě guān yú xìng shēng huó de yī xiē cháng shí。 mù qián yòu liǎng zhǒng qīng xiàng xū yào bì miǎn， yī shì fēng jiàn shè huì cán yú de shén mì guān diǎn， shǐ qīng nián nán nǚ duì xìng shēng huó zhī zhī shèn shǎo， tā（ tā） men duì xìng shēng huó gǎn dào hài xiū， kǒng jù， zhěng gè xīn hūn zhī yè chǔyú jǐn zhāng zhuàng tài zhōng。 lìng yī zhǒng shì shòu xī fāng xìng jiě fàng sī xiǎng de yǐng xiǎng hūn qián jiù kāi shǐ liǎo xìng shēng huó， duì xìng shēng huó jí duān bù fù zé rèn。 hūn qián xìng shēng huó yòu xǔ duō hài chù duì shuāng fāng dōubù lì， ér qiě hái fù yòu dào dé fǎ lǜ shàng de zé rèn。 hūn qián xìng shēng huó de dì diǎn、 huán jìng、 sī xiǎng zhǔn bèi dōubù huì chōng fēn， róng yì zào chéng sǔn shāng， yǐn qǐ xǔ duō hòu yí zhèng， yī dàn rèn shēn xū yào rén gōng liú chǎn， gèng huì gěi nǚ fāng dài lái tòng kǔ jí bìng fā zhèng。 wǒ men fǎn duì zhè liǎng zhǒng bù zhèng què de qīng xiàng， tí chàng zhèng què de hūn yīn guān、 jiā tíng guān。 xīn hūn shuāng fāng yìng xiāng hù tǐ tiē， xīn qíng qīng sōng， jīng shén yú kuài， zēng jiā xìng shēng huó de lè qù， cù jìn shuāng fāng de shēn xīn jiàn kāng。
yīnggāi zhī dào， xìng xíng wèishì yī gè fēi cháng mǐn gǎn、 fēi cháng jù tǐ de huà tí， tā shì rén lèi gè zhǒng xíng wéi zhōng zuì pǔ biàn、 zuì zhèng cháng cún zài dídí zì rán xiàn xiàng。 tā mùdì míng què， shì zì rán de guò chéng。 xìng xíng wéi bāo kuò yōng bào、 jiē wěn、 ài fǔ、 xìng jiāo děng。 rén lèi xìng xíng wéi rén rén jiē yòu， shì fán yǎn hòu dài jí rén lèi shè huì fā zhǎn de jī běn nèi róng zhī yī。 xìng shēng huó jù yòu hěn qiáng de yǐn bì xìng， yīnggāi shì zhuān yī de、 pái tā de， shì fēi cháng yán sù rèn zhēn de gāo shàng xíng wéi。 dāng rán xìng xíng wéi běn shēn yòu liǎngchóng xìng， wǒ men xū yào tí chàng de shì jù yòu gāo shàng dào dé biāo zhǔn de xìng xíng wéi， jiān jué fǎn duì dī jí xià liú、 bù fù zé rèn de xìng xíng wéi。
zhèng què duì dài chǔnǚ mó
xīn hūn xìng shēng huó chǔnǚ mó pò liè shì cháng yòu de shì， cháng bàn yòu shǎo liàng chū xuè jí qīng wēi de téng tòng。 yī bān bù yǐng xiǎng xìng shēng huó jìn xíng， rú guǒ zhèng zhuàng jiào zhòng， yīnggāi tíng zhǐ xìng shēng huó dài qí zì yù。 chū cì xìng jiāo shǎo liàng chū xuè què xì cháng yòu， dàn yě bù shì yī dìng yòu， yòu xiē fù nǚ chǔnǚ mó tánxìng hǎo yòu sōng ruǎn， chū cì xìng jiāo chǔnǚ mó bù yī dìng pò liè。 yòu rén jīng guò jǐ gè yuè de xìng shēng huó chǔnǚ mó réng bǎo chí dé wán zhěng wú sǔn。 yòu xiē fù nǚ chǔnǚ mó bó ruò， jù liè yùn dòng hái yòu xiē tè shū wài shāng dōukě yǐ dǎo zhì chǔnǚ mó pò liè。 chǔnǚ mó pò liè yǔ fǒu bù shì pàn duàn chǔnǚ de wéi yī biāo zhǔn， gèng bù shì jué duì kě kào de biāo zhǔn。 nán fāng yào xiāng xìn kē xué zhī shí， yào xiāng hù tǐ liàng， bù yào luàn cāi yí， yǐng xiǎng fū qī gǎn qíng。
guān yú chǔnǚ mó pò liè： yóu yú chǔnǚ mó yī bān zài xìng jiāo hòu pò liè， chuán tǒng de guān niàn biàn bǎ chǔnǚ mó shì fǒu wán hǎo dāng zuò nǚ zǐ shì fǒu yòu guò xìng xíng wéi de wéi yī jiǎn yàn fāng fǎ。 zài gǔ xī là， xīn láng xīn niàn rù dòng fáng shí yòu liǎng gè chēng zhī wéi “ mǎ shí tè ” de fù nǚ gēn suí， zuò wéi pò guā de jiàn zhèng rén。 suǒ wèi“ pò guā”， shì xīn láng yòng bái shǒu jīn chán zài zuǒ shǒu zhǐ shàng， rán hòu shēn rù nǚ zǐ yīn dào， rú guǒ shǒu jīn zhōng yòu xuè jì jiù zhèng míng shì chǔnǚ， yóu mǎ shí tè què rèn。 yóu yú zài rù dòng fáng zhī qián de xīn niàn xǐ shēn yě shì mǎ shí tè bāng zhù de， yī xiē yǐ shī shēn de gū niàn biàn mǎi tōng mǎ shí tè， xiān yòng niǎo xuè děng dòng wù xuè zhì rù yīn dào， yǐ mí huò nán fāng。 zài wǒ guó lì shǐ shàng，“ yuán hóng” de jiǎn chá yě liú chuán pō guǎng。 suī rán“ yàn zhēn” de jù tǐ shì lì sòng dài cái yòu， dàn zǎo zài jìn dài de zhù zuò zhōng jiù yǐ tí jí yàn zhēn。 bù shǎo wén xué zuò pǐn zhōng， wén rén zài miáo xiě xīn hūn zhī yè shí， yě cháng huì zuò yī xiē“ yàn hóng” de xì nì miáo xiě。 zài yī xiē xiāng cūn， guò qù zhǎngbèi sì hū duì xí fù shì fǒu shì chǔnǚ yě hěn guān xīn， cháng huì jiào dǎo nán fāng yòng zhǒng zhǒng fāng fǎ qù zuò yàn zhèng。 tā men suǒ zhù zhòng de， wú fēi shì nǚ zǐ de chǔnǚ mó de shì fǒu pò liè， yǐ chǔnǚ mó lái jiàn bié nǚ zǐ shì fǒu yòu guò shī zhēn。 shī zhēn guān niàn zài xiàn dài shè huì zhōng， suī rán yǐ jiàn dàn huà， dàn zài yī xiē rén， tè bié shì nán rén de tóu nǎo zhōng， què bù néng shuō yǐ méi yòu。 zì zūn zì 'ài zuì zhēn guì： nián qīng nǚ hái dāng rán yào zì zūn zì 'ài， bù yào suí biàn hé rén fā xìng guān xì。 dàn ruò zhēn de bù kě bì miǎn dì fā shēng zhè zhǒng shì， hái shì bù yào bèi tài dà bāo fú。 xìng jiāo gù rán huì shǐ chǔnǚ mó pò liè， dàn chǔnǚ mó pò liè què bìng fēi dōushì xìng jiāo zhì， jù liè yùn dòng、 yīn dào yòng yào、 mǒu xiē fán zhòng de tǐ lì láo dòng dōukě zhì chǔnǚ mó pò liè。 yòu nián wú zhī， jiāng yì wù sài rù yīn dào yǐ jí shǒu yín děng， yě huì shǐ chǔnǚ mó pò liè。 chǔnǚ mó yǔ chǔnǚ zhī jiān， bìng bù néng yī lǜ huá shàng děng hào。 chǔnǚ mó pò liè yǔ xíng wéi bù jiǎn zhī jiān， gèng bù néng hú luàn huá shàng děng hào。 dàn shì yī bān lái shuō， dà duō shù wèi hūn jiàn kāng nǚ xìng zài méi fā shēng xìng guān xì qián， chǔnǚ mó shì wán hǎo wú sǔn de， zài xīn hūn zhī yè huì“ jiàn hóng”。 bì jìng zài zhōng guó chuán tǒng wén huà xià zhǎngdà de nán zǐ yòu zhe chǔnǚ mó qíng jié， suǒ yǐ nián qīng nǚ hái yī dìng bù yào qīng yì yǔ rén fā shēng xìng guān xì， yě yào zài rì cháng shēng huó zhōng zhù yì bǎo hù zì jǐ， bì miǎn chǔnǚ mó zài fēi zhèng cháng qíng kuàng xià pò liè。 zài shuō chǔnǚ mó de cún zài， duì fáng zhǐ wài jiè bù jié de dōng xī jìn rù yīn dào， yě shì yòu yì chù de hymen wéi rén hé yī bù fēn yuán lèi de yīn dào xià duān yīn dào kǒu chù de xiá zhǎi de báomó。 kě yóu yú xìng jiāo hé qí tā děng yuán yīn 'ér pò huài， liú xià chǔnǚ mó hén（ carunculaehymenales）。 lái yuán yú miù lè shì guǎn（ guǎng yì de shū luǎn guǎn） de yīn dào hé qǐ yuán yú mì niào shēng zhí dòu de yīn dào qián tíng， zài fā shēng de guò chéng zhōng shì jīng liǎng cì dǎ tōng de， yīn cǐ zài liǎng zhě de jiāo jiè chù cán liú xià bàn kāi kǒu de mó zhuàng wù héng héng chǔnǚ mó。
chǔnǚ mó shì nǚ xìng wèi yú yīn dào kǒu yǔ yīn dào qián tíng de fēn jiè chù， huán rào yīn dào kǒu de yī céng báomó zhuàng zǔ zhì。 yòu chēng yīn dào qián mó。
shùn lì dù guò shǒu cì xìng shēng huó
shuāng fāng yào yòu jī běn de xìng zhī shí， liǎo jiě nán nǚ shēng zhí qì guān de bù wèi。 duì xìng shēng huó xīn hūn nán nǚ de xīn qíng lüè yòu chā bié， xīn láng wǎng wǎng biǎo xiàn wéi xīng fèn、 kě wàng、 hàoqí、 shāo yòu jǐn zhāng； xīn niàn zé cháng cháng jiào jǐn zhāng、 kǒng jù、 xiū sè jí gù lǜ。 xīn láng yào yòu suǒ kè zhì， qièwù guò zǎo jiē chù xìng qì guān， yòu bù zhòu dì cǎi yòng wēn róu fǔ 'ài de fāng shì qù xiāo chú xīn niàn de dǎn qiè hé gù lǜ， jī fā qí xìng yù。 nán fāng xìng yù wǎng wǎng shì běn néng de fǎn yìng， xìng de xiǎng xiàng hé shì jué cì jī dōushì xìng yù de xīng fèn jì， ài rén de tǐ tài、 qīn nì de biǎo qíng dōukě yǐn qǐ xìng chōng dòng。 nǚ xìng duì xìng xiǎng xiàng yě hěn mǐn gǎn， yóu qí shì chù jué、 tīng jué tè bié mǐn gǎn， qī zǐ yì bèi tián mì de yǔ yán、 rè qíng de yōng bào、 jiē wěn huò 'ài fǔ suǒ jī fā。 nán nǚ shuāng fāng yào hù xiāng 'ài fǔ， zhēng qǔ tóng bù jìn rù xìng xīng fèn qī。 nǚ fāng yìng zhù dòng jiě chú jǐn zhāng xīn lǐ。 shǒu cì xìng shēng huó méi yòu wán quán chéng gōng， dá bù dào xìng gāo cháo shì cháng yòu de shì， jiān dìng xìn xīn， jǐ cì xìng shēng huó yǐ hòu， yī dìng huì ràng shuāng fāng gǎn dào mǎn zú。
zhù yì xìng shēng huó wèi shēng
quán shēn qīng jié 'ér wài xíng měi shì cù jìn xìng yù de cuò shī， gèng yào zhù yì xìng qì guān de wèi shēng， shuāng fāng dōuyào qīng xǐ wài shēng zhí qì， xìng shēng huó wán bì hòu nǚ xìng yào jiě xiǎo biàn yī cì kě yǐ jiǎn shǎo niào lù gǎn rǎn。 xìng cì jī shí yī dìng yào dòng zuò qīng róu， gǎn dào shū shì wéi dù， bù yào chù jí niào dào kǒu jí gāng mén， yuè jīng qī yī dìng bù néng jìn xíng xìng shēng huó， xīn hūn yìng jìn liàng bì kāi yuè jīng qī。 rèn shēn qī、 chǎn rù qī dōubù néng jìn xíng xìng shēng huó。
yào qiú liǎo jiě shú xī xìng shēng zhí qì de bù wèi
nǚ xìng xìng jiāo de qì guān shì yīn dào， qièjì bù yào bǎ niào dào、 gāng mén dàngchéng yīn dào jìn xíng xìng shēng huó。
xīn hūn bù yí yǐn jiǔ guò dù， bù yí pí láo
yǐn jiǔ guò liàng wǎng wǎng kāi shǐ xīng fèn， yǐ hòu shì yì zhì qī， bù néng wán quán wán chéng xìng shēng huó， pí láo kě jiǎn shǎo xìng shēng huó de lè qù， shèn zhì bù néng jìn xíng xìng shēng huó， miǎnqiǎng jìn xíng yě huì wéi yǐ hòu de xìng shēng huó dài lái yīn yǐng。
xìng shēng huó bù yí tài pín fán
xìng shēng huó huì xiāo hào jīng lì， bù yí tài pín fán。 dàn xīn hūn zhī yè jǐ cì xìng shēng huó yě shì cháng yòu de， yǐ shuāng fāng bù jué pí láo wéi yí。 xìng shēng huó hòu shuì mián hěn zhòng yào， yòu rén jiǎng xìng shēng huó hòu shuì mián bǐ shí wù gèng zhòng yào。 lìng wài， yě yào zhù yì yíng yǎng， yóu qí shì dàn bái zhì de bǔ chōng， niú nǎi、 ròu、 yú、 dàn dōushì yōu zhì dàn bái， hái yào duō chī xiē shuǐ guǒ、 shū cài。 yī bān bù xū yào gāo jí zī bǔ pǐn rú rénshēn、 lù róng děng。
lǚ xíng jié hūn zhù yì shì xiàng
jìn lái lǚ xíng jié hūn de yuè lái yuè duō， lǚ xíng zhōng yī dìng yào xuǎn zé jié jìng de bīn guǎn， bèi rù yī dìng yào gān jìng。 lǚ xíng zhōng yī dìng yào qín huàn nèi yī kù， yào dài zú wèi shēng zhǐ jí xǐ xià shēn de máo jīn、 yòng jù。 yù qì yī dìng yào miè jūn xiāo dú。 lǚ tú yī bān bǐ jiào láolèi， yìng jiǎn shǎo xìng shēng huó cì shù。 bù yí zài lù tiān jìn xíng xìng shēng huó。
xìng shēng huó shí jiān
xǔ duō réndōu shì zài rù shuì qián jìn xíng， zhè yàng yǐng xiǎng shuì mián jiào qīng。 yè jiān jìn xíng shuāng fāng wǎng wǎng bù néng tóng bù。 huì yǐng xiǎng shuì mián。 yī bān bù yí zài cì rì qīng chén jìn xíng， xìng shēng huó hòu shuāng fāng wǎng wǎng dū xū yào xiū xī， xìng shēng huó hòu shàng bān huì yǐng xiǎng jīng lì。
xìng huó dòng yáng yì zhe de 'ài mù、 shēn qíng、 yǐ liàn、 wēn róu， chǎn shēng shí fēn měi hǎo de gǎn jué， kě yòu shí fāng shì huò xíng wéi bù dāng yě huì dǎo zhì chū xiàn zhè yàng huò nà yàng de wèn tí。 yǐ xià bā zhǒng qíng kuàng zài xìng shēng huó zhōng shì hěn yòu kě néng fā shēng de， yù dào zhè xiē qíng kuàng yī dìng yào zhèng què chǔlǐ。
xìng shēng huó yì wài de zhèng què chǔlǐ
1. xìng shēng huó guò mǐn guò mǐn de fā shēng duō shù shì yóu yú duì shuāng rǔ jiāo hé duì qí tā bì yùn yòng jù huòyào wù bù shì yìng， nǚ xìng cháng huì gǎn dào yīn dào cì tòng、 shāo zhuó。 yī dàn yòu guò mǐn fǎn yìng， kě yòng shuǐ、 shī máo jīn huò zhǐ jīn cā qù huò guàn xǐ chú qù cán liú de yè tǐ、 shuāng jì zhī lèi， rán hòu xǐ gè wēn shuǐ yù。
2. jìng luán jí téng tòng fā shēng de yuán yīn kě néng yǔ xìng shēng huó shí dòng zuò guò yú jù liè jí jī ròu guò dù lā shēn yòu guān。 bì miǎn de fāng fǎ shì xìng qián xì yào chōng fēn， dòng zuò yào wēn róu。 yī dàn fā shēng， yìng yú tíng zhǐ， dài zhèng zhuàng huǎn hé xià lái。
3. bì yùn jù de huá luò jīhū suǒ yòu de yǐ hūn zhě dū jīng lì guò 'ān quán tào pò liè huò yīn dào gé mó huá luò de yì wài。 zhèng què de zuò fǎ shì： 72 xiǎo shí nèi kǒu fú liǎng cì shì hòu bì yùn yào； jiǎ rú 'ān quán tào tuō luò zài yīn dào nèi， zhǐ xū qīng qīng niē zhù qí gēn bù zhuài chū jí kě。
4. yīn dào gé mó qǔ bù chū lái yòu shí bǐ jiào jù liè de dòng zuò huì jiāng yīn dào gé mó tuī xiàng shēn chù， yǐ zhì nán yǐ qǔ chū。 duì cǐ， qǔ dūn wèi， rán hòu píng zhù hū xī shōu suō fù bù， yīn dào gé mó jiù huì bèi xiàng wài tuī zhì kě yǐ gòu dé zhe de wèi zhì， zì jǐ jiāng qí qǔ chū。
5. pén qiāng chōng xuè nǚ xìng zài xìng xīng fèn shí， dà liàng xuè yè yǒng rù pén qiāng zǔ zhì xíng chéng chōng xuè zhuàng tài。 zhè shí， nǐ yīnggāi píng wò， yòng yī zhǐ zhěn tóu bǎ tún bù diàn gāo， měi cì bàn xiǎo shí， měi rì 3-4 cì， kě bāng zhù xuè yè fǎn liú， bì yào shí kě fú 'ā sī pǐ lín děng kàng yán yào wù。
6. niào lù gǎn rǎn yī bān shuō lái， měi zhōu dá 4-5 cì huò měi cì xìng shēng huó de shí jiān tài cháng dū suàn zài“ guò dù” zhī liè， guò dù xìng shēng huó zào chéng xì jūn qīn rù niào dào shèn zhì shàng xíng pángguāng， dǎo zhì niào lù gǎn rǎn。
7. jǐng bù téng tòng jǐng bù jī ròu jiāng yìng huò shì qiān lā róng yì fā shēng niǔ shāng， kě yòng yī tiáo máo jīn niǔ chéng yī gǔ wéi zài bó zǐ zhōu wéi， bìng jiāng liǎng duān xì jǐn， lái zhī chēng tóu bù jiǎn qīng jī ròu de fù dān。
8. bèi bù niǔ shāng zhèng cháng de xìng shēng huó shì bù yīngyǒu téng tòng de。 xìng shēng huó zhōng bèi tòng duō jiàn yú bèi bù jī qún xiāng duì jiào bó ruò de nǚ xìng， chǔlǐ fāng fǎ shì lì jí qū xī cè wò， liǎng xī zhī jiān fàng yī gè zhěn tóu， bìng jú bù lěng fū。
chǎn hòu shǒu cì xìng shēng huó zhù yì shì xiàng
zài rèn shēn hé chǎn hòu de yī gè jiē duàn， xìng shēng huó bèi pò tíng zhǐ liǎo， hǎo bù róng yì děng dào shēng wán hái zǐ， zuò wán yuè zǐ， huì yīn de shāng kǒu yù hé liǎo， xìng shēng huó yě kě yǐ kāi jìn liǎo， kě shì yòu bù shǎo nǚ xìng zài shǒu cì xìng shēng huó zhōng chū xiàn liǎo huì yīn shāng kǒu liè kāi， yīn wéi téng tòng 'ér zhōng zhǐ liǎo xìng shēng huó， yòng tā men de huà lái shuō“ zhēn shì bài xīng！”。 zhè shì shénme yuán yīn ní？ shàng hǎi rén 'ài yī yuàn fù kē de yuán zhù rèn fēn xī shuō：
dì yī， kě néng yǔ chǎn hòu huī fù xìng shēng huó de shí jiān yòu guān。 huì yīn qièkǒu de shāng kǒu yī bān xū 7 tiān cái néng yù hé， bìng jiāng féng chāi chú。 cǐ shí， huì yīn biǎo miàn zǔ zhì shì yǐ yù hé， dàn shì shēn bù jī céng、 jīn mó xū 6-8 zhōu cái néng dé yǐ xiū fù。 rú guǒ guò zǎo huī fù xìng shēng huó， kě dǎo zhì shāng kǒu liè kāi、 chū xuè。 yuán zhù rèn tè bié tí xǐng nà xiē zào chéng huì yīn sī liè shāng de nǚ xìng yóu qí yào zhù yì， tā men shāng kǒu gèng yì gǎn rǎn， zuì hǎo zài yī shēng jiǎn chá， què dìng yǐ yù hé hòu zài kāi shǐ xìng shēng huó。
dì 'èr， yǔ qī zǐ de quán shēn qíng kuàng yòu guān， rú guǒ qī zǐ tǐ zhì ruò、 yíng yǎng bù liáng、 pín xuè， huò zhě shāng kǒu yòu yán zhèng， zhè xiē dū huì yán chí shāng kǒu yù hé de shí jiān， guò zǎo xìng shēng huó yě róng yì dǎo zhì shāng kǒu liè kāi。
dì sān， kě néng yǔ shāng kǒu féng hé qíng kuàng yòu guān。 chú liǎo huì yīn bù biǎo pí céng yòng sī xiàn féng hé wài， nèi céng jī ròu、 pí xià zhī fáng céng jūn yòng yáng cháng xiàn féng hé。 yóu yú rén tǐ zǔ zhì yáng cháng xiàn de xī shōu yòu míng xiǎn de gè tǐ chā yì jiā shàng yáng cháng xiàn de zhì liàng、 huì yīn bù shì fǒu yán gé xiāo dú děng wèn tí， yě huì yǐng xiǎng rén tǐ zǔ zhì de xī shōu， yán chí shāng kǒu yù hé。
dì sì， dāng rán， yóu yú nán fāng zài qī zǐ chǔyú rèn shēn wǎn qī、 chǎn rù qī shí jìn yù shí jiān jiào cháng， yī dàn huī fù fū qī shēng huó， wǎng wǎng dòng zuò jī liè， zhè yàng yě hěn róng yì yǐn qǐ huì yīn zǔ zhì sǔn shāng、 chū xuè、 liè kāi。
yīn cǐ， chǎn hòu yī dìng yào děng huì yīn shāng kǒu wán quán yù hé hòu fāng kě huī fù xìng shēng huó。 shǒu cì xìng shēng huó shí， zhàng fū dòng zuò yào qīng róu， yī dàn huī fù fū qī shēng huó huò xìng shēng huó jié shù hòu fā xiàn yīn dào chū xuè， yìng lì jí jiù zhěn， mò yīn“ nán wéi qíng” ér zì jǐ cǎo cǎo zhǐ xuè liǎo shì， yǐ miǎn yán wù zhì liáo。
xìng shēng huó de 83 zhǒng bié chēng
zài hàn yǔ yǔ xì zhōng， cóng gǔ zhì jīn， duì“ xìng shēng huó” yī cí de chēng wèi kě wèi duō yǐ。 zhè xiē cí zài bù tóng shí qī chū xiàn， bìng zài bù tóng de yǔ jìng zhōng yòu bù tóng de hán yì， biǎo xiàn chū hàn yǔ yǔ yán de fēng fù xìng hé rén men duì“ xìng” zài bù tóng lì shǐ shí qī de dào dé pàn duàn。
1、【 xìng jiāo】 jìn dài yǐ lái zuì zhèng guī de shū miàn yòng yǔ， cháng yòng yú yī xué。
2、【 zuò 'ài】 xī lái cí。
3、【 zào 'ài】 yáng jiàng xiān shēng zuì 'ài yòng de cí。
4、【 zào rén】 gǔ rén rèn wéi xìng de mùdì jiù shì chuán zōng jiē dài， tā xiǎn shì chū guò qù rén duì xìng de“ kuài lè” hé“ jiàn kāng” liǎng dà gōng néng de hū shì。
5、【 xìng shēng huó】 xiàn dài rén de shū miàn yòng yǔ。 rén men bǎ xìng dàngchéng liǎo yī zhǒng shēng huó fāng shì。
6、【 xìng xíng wéi】 xiàn dài rén shū miàn yòng yǔ。 yī zhǒng shè huì xué de chēng hū， bǎo chí liǎo zhōng lì de dào dé pàn duàn。
7、【 xìng huó dòng】 tóng shàng。
8、【 fáng shì】 gǔ rén shū miàn yǔ yán， yī xué shàng duō yòng。 xìng shì yī zhǒng sī mì de huó dòng。
9、【 xíng fáng】 shū miàn yǔ yán， zhōng yī cháng yòng。
10、【 tóng fáng】 shū miàn yǔ yán， zhōng yī cháng yòng。
11、【 jiāo gòu】 shū miàn yǔ yán， rén yǔ dòng wù tōng yòng。 duì xìng yòu yī zhǒng míng xiǎn de miè shì。
12、【 zhōu gōng zhī lǐ】 xíng xiàng dài chēng， fēi gǔ yǔ。 lǐ wéi zhōu gōng suǒ zuò， gù chēng zhōu gōng zhī lǐ， zhōu gōng zhī lǐ hé xīn wéi rén lún， rén lún hé xīn wéi fū qī jiāo gòu， gù yòu shì chēng。
13、【 dūn lún】 jiāo pèi de wén yǎ dài chēng。 yuán wéi rú jiā yòng yǔ， hòu wéi fó jiā jiè yòng， zài hòu zhuǎn jiè wéi nán nǚ jiāo pèi。
14、【 qiáng jiān】 qiǎngpò nǚ xìng 'ér fā shēng xìng guān xì， fǎ lǜ yòng yǔ。 nán quán shè huì de xìng zuì。
15、【 lún jiān】 liǎng gè huò zhě yǐ shàng nán rén tóng shí qiáng jiān yī gè nǚ rén de xíng wéi， fǎ lǜ yòng yǔ。 nán quán shè huì duì xìng zuì de jí duān miáo shù。
16、【 jī jiān】 gǔ yǔ， yì zhǐ nán rén qiáng jiān nán rén， fǎ lǜ yòng yǔ。 qiáng zhě duì ruò zhě de xìng wū rǔ。
17、【 shùn jiān】 nǚ fāng tóng yì qíng kuàng xià de bù zhèng dāng xìng huó dòng。 fǎ lǜ shàng cháng yòng。 zhèyīháng wéi zài jīn tiān yǐ bèi hěn duō rén zhì wèn， tā shì fǒu hái gòu chéng fàn zuì， shì kě yí de。
18、【 jiān yín】 xíng xiàng cí， yì zhǐ hěn duō。
19、【 tōng jiān】 gǔ shū miàn yòng yǔ， nán nǚ shuāng fāng dū yuàn yì fā shēng de xìng xíng wéi。 fǎ lǜ shàng cháng yòng。 dàn xiàn zài yě bèi rén zhì wèn。
20、【 gòu dā】“ tōng jiān” de sú yǔ。
21、【 fā shēng guān xì】“ fā shēng xìng guān xì” de suō yǔ。
22、【 gǒu hé】 shū miàn yòng yǔ， biǎn yì， cháng jiàn yú wén xué zuò pǐn。
23、【 rù xiàng】 zǎo qī bái huà xiǎo shuō yòng yǔ。
24、【 yún yǔ】 dà gài kàn guò《 hóng lóu mèng》 de réndōu jì dé zhè yī míng cí。 hěn xíng xiàng， yě hěn làng màn。
25、【 shàng chuáng】 zuì zhí bái de biǎo shù。
26、【 shuì jué】 xíng xiàng dài chēng。
27、【 kùn jué】《 ā Q zhèng chuán》 lǐ de míng zì。 tā xiǎn shì liǎo zhōng guó wén rén de chuàng zào lì。
28、【 dà huó】 jì nǚ hángyè yòng yǔ。
29、【 dǎ pào】 jì nǚ hángyè yòng yǔ。 yòu dāng dài shī rén yǐ cǐ xiě liǎo yī shǒu shī。
30、【 dǎ jǐng】 xíng xiàng de miáo shù。
31、【 zuānjǐng】 duì xìng jiāo guò chéng de yī zhǒng miáo shù。
32、【 zuāntàn】 dòng cí， xíng xiàng jiè dài。 dòng dòng tíng tíng， dài yòu shì tàn de hán yì。
33、【 dǎ dòng】 dòng cí， xíng xiàng jiè dài。
34、【 dǎ yǎn 'ér】 tóng“ dǎ dòng”。
35、【 gēng dì】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。
36、【 gēng yún】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。
37、【 kěn huāng】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。 duì chǔnǚ de yī zhǒng xí hǎo。
38、【 kāi kěn chǔnǚ dì】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。 hěn kě xiào， rén men zài shuō“ chǔnǚ dì”、“ chǔnǚ zuò” děng shí jìng rán méi yòu yī sī yǔ xìng de lián xì。
39、【 bōzhòng】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。
40、【 dǎo jiàng gāng】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。
41、【 dǎ chū liù 'ér】 xíng xiàng bǐ yù。 zhù yào qiáng diào yùn dòng zhōng huá de gǎn jué。 lì： jīn tiān nǐ zěn me chū nà me duō de shuǐ？ zhí dǎ chū liù 'ér。
42、【 bàn shì 'ér】 sú yǔ。
43、【 bàn shí shì 'ér】 xìng shì rén shēng zuì shí jì de huó dòng zhī yī。
44、【 gǎo shì 'ér】 dài chēng， lüè hán biǎn yì。
45、【 měi zhōu dà shì】 yuán yú tái wān yī piān tóng míng xiǎo shuō， zhù rén gōng zá huò diàn lǎo bǎn zhěng rì láolèi， zhǐ hǎo bǎ zuò 'ài huó dòng yā suō dào zhōu mò jìn xíng， gù yòu shì chēng。
46、【 dà shì 'ér】 tóng shàng jǐ tiáo。 wén xué shàng cháng yòng。
47、【 cāo *】 suī rán bù yǎ， dàn jīhū nán nǚ dū cháng yòng。 tā shí jì shàng jiē jìn yú běn tǐ。 yě mán、 xìng gǎn。
48、【 gān】 yòu yī zhǒng fā xiè de yì sī。
49、【 rì】 zuì sú de yǔ yán。 jù yòu xiē xìng xué jiā kǎo zhèng， yòu yī xiē mín zú bǎ“ chī” hé“ rì” shuō chéng tóng yī yǔ cí。 hái yòu rén kǎo zhèng， hěn duō mín zú dū yòng zhè yī“ cí yǔ” lái biǎo shì xìng huó dòng。
50、【 rì X】 tóng【 cāo *】 yī yàng。。
51、【 cāo】 tuì huà chéng guó mà liǎo。 běn lái shì nán rén yòng de， xiàn zài nǚ hái zǐ yě cháng yòng， dāng rán gǎi wéi“ kào”。
52、【 zuò】 wén yǎ dài chēng。
53、【 nòng】 děng tóng yú zuò。
54、【 zhěng】 sú yǔ。
55、【 dié（ yīn）】 bù zhī dào shì zěn me xiě， dàn xī běi réndōu jiǎng zhè gè cí， yì sī hěn fēng fù。
56、【 dié huó】 tóng shàng。
57、【 kè】 yīn： ke， jīn jiǎn huà chéng kè zì。 bù fēn dì qū nián qīng rén de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ， nán hái zǐ jīng cháng shuō。
58、【 kào】 cāo de zhuǎn yīn zì， xiàn zài yǐ jīng chéng liǎo yī gè guàncí。
59、【 qiē】 cāo de zhuǎn yīn zì， xiāng duì wén yǎ， duō wéi nǚ xìng suǒ yòng， tōng cháng dān yòng， dài yòu gǎn qíng sè cǎi。
60、【 dào】 yòu“ qiē” zhuǎn biàn 'ér lái， yī gè yì sī de lìng yī zhǒng xiě fǎ。
61、【 chā】 wǎng luò shàng cháng yòng cí。 yòu rén de wǎng míng jiù jiào chā mǒu。
62、【 chā rù】 xiàn zài yī xué yòng yǔ。
63、【 shàng shēn】 mín jiān bǐ jiào wén yǎ de shuō fǎ。 cháng yú bèi hòu yì lùn mǒu gè nǚ rén shí shuō， tā ràng shuí shuí gěi shàng shēn liǎo。
64、【 hái yào】 dài chēng。 nǚ rén cháng zài zuò 'ài liǎo yī cì zhī hòu bù guò yǐn， duì pí bèi de nán rén shuō， wǒ hái yào！ kě qiān wàn bié xiǎo kàn liǎo wǒ hái yào zhè sān gè zì de fènliàng， tā zú yǐ shǐ yī xiē nán rén xià pò liǎo dǎn！
65、【 bàn liǎo】 nán rén cháng yòng zài zhēng fú mǒu gè nǚ rén hòu duì qí tā rén shuō de huà。
66、【 nà shénme liǎo】 duì xìng de yī zhǒng hán hú de biǎo shù。
67、【 nà shì 'ér】 tóng shàng。
68、【 nà diǎn shì 'ér】 lüè yòu biǎn yì。
69、【 69】 xíng xiàng jiè dài。 fēi zuò 'ài de chuán tǒng fāng shì， dàn wéi shí shàng nán nǚ suǒ xǐ 'ài， yě shì tóng zhì péng yǒu cháng cǎi yòng de fāng shì。 dàn zhè zhǒng fāng shì wéi zhèng jīng rén suǒ tuò qì， rèn wéi shì bù zhèng jīng xíng wéi。
70、【 99】 xíng xiàng jiè dài。 hòu bèi jìn rù shì。
71、【 XX】 shū miàn duì zuò 'ài zì yàng de yī zhǒng yǐn huì biǎo dá xíng shì， shì yī zhǒng tán hǔ sè biàn de shí dài rén men cháng yòng de biǎo dá。
72、【 ML】 zuò 'ài de yīng wén suō xiě。 yǐ xià wéi dòng wù jiāo pèi míng chēng
73、【 jiāo pèi】 shū miàn yòng yǔ。
74、【 gǒu dǎ lián huán】 mín jiān duì gǒu jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ。
75、【 qǐ yāng zǐ】 mín jiān duì gǒu jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng shuō fǎ。
76、【 gǒu niǎn gǒu】 mín jiān duì gǒu jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ。
77、【 nào māo】 mín jiān duì māo jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ， yīn wéi māo xiǎng yào jiāo pèi de shí hòu jiào shēng qī cǎn， gù yòu shì chēng。
78、【 qǐ nì】 mín jiān duì zhū jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ， yīn zhū yào jiāo pèi de shí hòu zǒng shì nián hū zài yī qǐ， gù yòu shì chēng。
79、【 dǎ nì】 zhū“ qǐ nì” de lìng yī zhǒng shuō fǎ。
80、【 shào zǐ】 yú jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ， yīn yú jiāo pèi bù shì zhí jiē jiē chù， gù yòu shì chēng。
81、【 cǎi dàn】 mín jiān duì jī jiāo pèi de yī zhǒng xíng xiàng shuō fǎ。
82、【 jiāo wěi】 dòng wù jiāo pèi de zhèng guī shū miàn yòng yǔ。
83、【 nào chūn】 dòng wù jiāo pèi de fàn chēng， yīn dòng wù tōng cháng dōuzài chūn tiān jiāo pèi， jiāo pèi shí qī dòng zuò xíng wéi fǎn cháng， gù yòu shì chēng。
wǔ zhāo diào dòng nǚ rén zuò 'ài qíng xù
shuō shí zài huà， hěn duō nán réndōu xī wàng zì jǐ de nǚ rén zài chuáng shàng jiāo chuǎn xū xū， gāo cháo dié qǐ， zhǐ shì xiāng dāng yī bù fēn nán rén zhí zhe zài zì jǐ zuò 'ài shí jiān huò zhě jiā jù chǐ cùn de wèn tí shàng liǎo。 shí jì shàng nǚ rén shì xiāng dāng gǎn xìng de shēng wù， zài xìng 'ài zhōng dān chún de cháng shí jiān huósāi yùn dòng huò zhě dà gè dì dì bìng bù néng bāng zhù tā men dá dào jí diǎn， xiāng fǎn yòu shí hái huì yóu yú pí láo huò zhě bù shì 'ér bù nài fán ( dāng rán shǎo shù xīn lǐ zhuī qiú chún xìng jiāo de nǚ xìng chú wài )。
suǒ yǐ ràng nǚ rén zhēn zhèng dòng qíng qǐ lái， cái shì zuì róng yì ràng tā men gǎn jué xīng fèn hé róng yì dá dào gāo cháo diān fēng de zuì kuài zuì hǎo tú jìng。 kě xī hěn duō nán rén xǐ huān dān qiāng zhí rù， duì xìng 'ài qián de tiáoqíng bù zhòu yào me hū lüè tiào guò yào me jiù shì cǎo cǎo hùn luàn mō cā liǎng xià liǎo shì， qí shí， rú guǒ nǐ qiǎo yòng shǒu duàn， zì rán néng bǎ nǚ rén de yù wàng zhī huǒ diǎn rán， rán hòu zài nǐ de zhǐ jiān tiào dòng rán shāo， ér zuì hòu de jiāo hé zhǐ shì yī zhǒng shuǐ dào qú chéng de bù zhòu， ràng diǎn rán de néng liàng dé dào shì fàng 'ér yǐ， nà me dào dǐ zài chuáng shàng gāi yòng nà xiē tiáoqíng shǒu duàn ní， xià miàn wǒ men lái bǐ jiào jǐ zhǒng bā。
yī、 kǒu shé zhī yú
kǒu jiāo duì yú xiàn dài nán nǚ yīnggāi bù zài shì yī gè mò shēng de xìng 'ài fāng shì， xìng 'ài qián xiāng hù kǒu jiāo cì jī shì yī zhǒng kuài sù jī lěi xīng fèn chéng dù de yòu lì wǔ qì。 kě néng dà jiā huì shuō， nǐ bù shì shuō yào ràng nǚ rén dòng qíng má？ kǒu jiāo bù shì yī zhǒng dān chún de shēng lǐ cì jī má？ qí shí， nǚ rén wéi nán rén kǒu jiāo bǐ jiào duō， ér nán rén yuàn yì wéi nǚ rén 'ér qiě shì yòu jī qíng yòu jì qiǎo de kǒu jiāo hái shì shǎo zhī yòu shǎo de， dāng rán， yě xǔ nǚ rén duì zhè zhǒng xíng wéi hái yòu pái chì， bù guò yī dàn tā men cháng shì jǐ cì yǐ hòu， xiāng xìn tā men huì xǐ huān zhè zhǒng gǎn jué de， yīn wéi bù jǐn jǐn shì shēng lǐ shàng de cì jī， gèng duō de shì duì zì jǐ nán rén de fù chū de yī zhǒng xǐ yuè、 xiū sè、 gǎn dòng yǐ jí xìng fú gǎn， zhè xiē hùn zá zài yī qǐ， zú yǐ ràng nǐ de nǚ rén nèi xīn de qíng gǎn yǒng dòng qǐ lái， cóng 'ér kuài sù xīng fèn qǐ lái。 bù guò xū yào shuō míng de shì， dì yī yào zhù yì jì qiǎo， zhè kě yǐ cóng qí tā wén zhāng zhōng xué xí。 dì 'èr shì bù yào tài miǎnqiǎng， yào zhú jiàn ràng pái chì de nǚ rén jiē shòu。 dì sān shì bù yào tài cháng shí jiān， yǐ miǎn zào chéng nǚ xìng wài shēng zhí qì guān de gǎn rǎn。 kǒu jiāo kě néng zhǐ shì fū qī zhī jiān de yī zhǒng yú lè shǒu duàn， dàn tā jué duì kě yǐ ràng nán nǚ zhī jiān jìn qíng xiǎng shòu qíng gǎn jiāo zhì de xìng fú。
èr、 shǒu zhǐ zhī wǔ
nán xìng gèng xǐ huān zhí jiē de jìn rù zhù tí， dàn rú guǒ nǐ yòu yī shuāng wēn róu de shuāng shǒu， nà me zài zhù tí zhī qián pū diàn yī duàn yǐn wén， nà me nǐ men de yú shuǐ zhī wén zhāng jiāng biàn dé huá lì dòng rén。 nǚ rén hé yīng 'ér yī yàng， jī fū yòu tiān shēng de bèi fǔ mó de kě wàng， yōng bào hé shǒu zhǐ zài zì jǐ jī fū shàng qīng qīng de fú dòng wǔ dǎo， kě yǐ ràng nǚ rén hún shēn dū chàn dǒu qǐ lái， zì rán 'ér rán de gēn suí zhe nǐ de zhǐ jiān jìn qíng shì fàng zì jǐ de kě wàng。 suǒ yǐ， bù yào tài zhēn xī shí jiān， zài xìng 'ài zhī zhōng，“ làng fèi” diǎn shí jiān shì jué duì zhí dé de， màn màn de lái， cóng tuō yī fú kāi shǐ， cóng tóu dào jiǎo yī diǎn yī diǎn de qīng qīng de fǔ mó， shǒu zhǎng yào jì dé gǎo nuǎnhuo， dòng zuò qīng róu， měi yī cùn jī fū màn màn fǔ mó， nǐ kě yǐ bù xiǎng xìng 'ài zhī shì， zhǐ shì xiǎng xiàng zì jǐ rú tóng zài měi lì de yún duǒ zhōng jìng jìng de sàn bù， nǐ de shǒu zhǐ zài tiào wǔ， ér měi lì de nǚ shén jiāng hé zhe nǐ de jié pāi， dào zuì hòu nǐ huì fā xiàn， dāng xìng 'ài kāi shǐ de shí hòu， yī qiēdōu shì nà me hé xié měi miào。
sān、 cū yě zhī měi
nán rén wèi dào， rú bào fēng rú zhòu yǔ， bù jiǎng dào lǐ de bǎ nǚ rén de tóu bāi guò lái， bù yóu fēn shuō de bǎ nǐ 'àn zài shēn xià， mánhèng de tài dù， qiáng zhuàng de tǐ bó， nǚ rén rú tóng gǎn jué zì jǐ shì kuáng fēng zhōng de xiǎo cǎo， rèn yóu duì fāng 'ér lái， què yòu xiǎng shòu zhe bèi róu lìn de kuài gǎn， zhè jué duì bù shì biàn tài， duì yú xiāng dāng shù liàng de nǚ xìng lái shuō， cū yě de nán rén fēng gé yòu shí néng ràng zì jǐ gāo sù de jìn rù xīng fèn de guǐ dào。 yóu yú nǚ xìng de tiān xìng shì yī zhǒng chéng shòu zhě， tā men de běn néng shì kě wàng gèng qiáng zhuàng de yì xìng， suǒ yǐ dāng chōng mǎn cū yě fēng gé de nán rén xíng dòng qǐ lái， wǎng wǎng néng ràng nǚ rén chǎn shēng jí dà de mǎn zú gǎn yǐ jí duì zì jǐ duì duì fāng yòu yòu huò néng lì de zì xìn， zhè yī qiē zú yǐ ràng nǚ rén xīng fèn bù yǐ。 dāng rán liǎo， xū yào shuō míng， cū yě bù shì cū bào， yě bù shì jiǎn dān， dòng zuò suī rán shì yī zhǒng zhù zǎi de gǎn jué， dāng bìng bù shì qiáng jiān ( dāng rán yòu xiē nǚ xìng yě yòu qiáng jiān qián yì shí， bù guò hái shì shǎo shù， ér qiě tài cū yě jiù chéng liǎo méi yòu qián zòu de jiǎn dān cū bào xíng wèile )， suǒ yǐ jì qiǎo xìng de cū yě yī bān dōushì zài qíng huà mián mián pū diàn zhī hòu de xíng dòng， nǐ de cū yě zhǐ shì chuán dá yī zhǒng nǐ fēi cháng 'ài duì fāng de xìn hào， ér bù shì nǐ shì yě shòu de xìn xī。 suǒ yǐ cū yě yě kě yǐ hěn měi lì， zhǐ yào nǐ zhǎng wò hǎo huǒ hòu。
sì、 yòu huò rú gē
huáng sè xiào huà， yín dàng de gù shì， tiǎo dòu xìng de 'àn shì， hái yòu shénme bǐ yǔ yán gèng róng yì dǎ dòng nǚ rén， nǚ rén tiān shēng jiù róng yì bèi yǔ yán suǒ yòu huò， qiǎo kǒu rú huáng de nán rén yǒng yuǎn bù quē nǚ rén， chán mián de qíng huà， ròu má dào diào zhā de qíng huà què kě yǐ ràng nǚ rén yǎn rú sī， xīn rú sū， tuǐ 'ér ruǎn ruǎn， quán shēn zhēn zhèng chéng liǎo shuǐ zuò de miào rén 'ā， bù yào zài chuáng shàng xìn fèng chén mò shì jīn de xìn tiáo， nà zhǐ néng ràng nǐ de nǚ rén gǎn jué kū zào， yǔ yán， què shí jiù shì nà yī jù jù de huà， què néng diào dòng qǐ nǚ rén nèi xīn zuì shēn chù de qíng yù， ràng nǚ rén nán yǐ kòng zhì de xīng fèn， tā huì biàn dé kě wàng xìng 'ài， kě wàng nǐ de xià yī bù， nà me hòu miàn de xíng wéi hái bù dū guā shú dì luò？ suǒ yǐ， rú guǒ nǐ de zuǐ bǐ jiào bèn， nà me gǎn jǐn mǎi jǐ běn xiào huà dà quán hé qíng huà dà quán 'è bǔ yī fān bā， suī rán bù rú zhuān yè yǔ yán gāo shǒu lì hài， nǐ yě yī yàng kě yǐ ràng zì jǐ de nǚ rén kuài lè qǐ lái。 qǐng jì zhù， nǚ rén yǒng yuǎn xǐ huān qíng huà， nà pà zhè huà jiǎ dé bù néng zài jiǎ， zhǐ yào shì tā 'ài de rén shuō de， tā yī yàng kě yǐ táo zuì zhe fēi shàng tiān， shí zài bù xíng， yào shì nǐ yòu gè bù cuò de hǎo sǎng zǐ， nà me jiù chàng qíng gē bā， dà bǎ dōushì， ér dòng tīng de gēqǔ hé yǔ yán yī yàng， kě yǐ ràng nǚ rén mí liàn qí zhōng。 OK， nà me qù mǎn zú nǐ de nǚ rén bā， yòng nǐ yòu huò de gē shēng shōu huò wán měi de nǚ rén。
wǔ、 wǎng shì rú cháo
shuō liǎo zhè me jǐ zhǒng tiáoqíng fāng fǎ， qí shí zuì hǎo zuì wán měi de tiáoqíng jiù shì nǐ men zhī jiān yǐ jīng qíng yǐ shēn， ài rù gǔ liǎo， rú guǒ nǐ men zhēn zhèng xiāng 'ài， nà me yī qiē tiáoqíng dū jiǎn dān míng liǎo， bù guò zhè lǐ tuī jiàn fū qī hé qíng rén men yī gè hǎo de xiǎo fāng fǎ， jiù shì yī qǐ xiāng yōng yú chuáng kāi shǐ huí yì nǐ men guò yú de xìng 'ài qíng jǐng， bǎ nǐ men céng jīng jīng lì de yī xiē yòu qù de yín dàng de wán měi de děng děng nán yǐ wàng jì de xìng 'ài qíng jǐng shuō chū lái， qīng qīng de xù shù zhe， màn màn de fǔ mó zhe duì fāng， zhè zhǒng cì jī shì cóng xīn dào shēn dōushì wán měi de， zhè zhǒng qián zòu zhī hòu de xìng 'ài rú guǒ bù hé xié cái qí guài ní。 qí shí shuō zhè diǎn， shuō jiǎn dān tè bié jiǎn dān， yīn wéi zhǐ xū yào nǐ fù chū nǐ de zhēn xīn shí qíng jiù yī dìng hěn róng yì yǐn fā zhè zhǒng chǎng jǐng， shuō fù zá hái zhēn fù zá， yīn wéi zhēn xīn shì zuì nán dé yī jiàn de dōng xī。
lǎo rén xìng shēng huó
lǎo rén xìng shēng huó kě chí xù dào 70 suì
jué dà bù fēn lǎo nián rén de xìng shēng huó kě yǐ chí xù dào 70 suì yǐ shàng， qí zhōng yī bù fēn rén kě yǐ bǎo chí dào 80 suì zuǒ yòu， gè bié de dào 90 suì gāo líng réng yòu xìng yào qiú。 jù yī xué bào gào， jí shǐ dào liǎo 90 suì， nán xìng de gāo wán réng kě chǎn shēng yī xiē jīng zǐ。 jiāng xī shěng duì 146 míng chéng shì lí tuì xiū zhě de xìng gōng néng jìn xíng diào chá， zài 65 ～ 70 suì lǎo nián nán xìng zhōng， méi yòu xìng yào qiú zhě zhǐ zhàn 12%。
nián guò huā jiá xìng wèi lǎo， xìng gōng néng bù huì yīn nián líng de zēngzhǎng 'ér hěn kuài sàng shī， sàng shī de zhǐ shì shēng zhí gōng néng， ér shēng zhí gōng néng yǔ xìng gōng néng shì liǎng mǎ shì。
jìn yù bǎo jīng bìng bù néng yán nián yì shòu
yòu xiē lǎo nián rén cuò wù dì rèn wéi， jìn yù bǎo jīng kě yán nián yì shòu。 yú shì， dào liǎo 60 duō suì jiù tíng zhǐ fáng shì。 xiàn dài yī xué rèn wéi， lǎo nián rén cháng shí jiān jìn yù， jiāng huì dǎo zhì xìng gōng néng de sàng shī。 yīn wéi jìn yù pò huài liǎo jī tǐ píng héng， jiàng dī liǎo xìng jī sù de fēn mì， yā yì liǎo rén de xìng běn néng， rén tǐ jù jí de xìng yù wàng dé bù dào shì fàng， fǎn 'ér huì gěi rén de jīng shén hé ròu tǐ dài lái sǔn hài。 guó nèi wài de yòu guān yán jiū jūn biǎo míng： jìn yù de rén， tā men de shuāi lǎo yǔ sǐ wáng shuài bǐ yòu zhèng cháng xìng shēng huó de rén gāo 30% yǐ shàng。 xìng qì guān de zhèng cháng shǐ yòng， kě yǐ yán huǎn xìng gōng néng shuāi tuì de sù dù， kě yǐ bǎo chí xìng jī sù zhèng cháng de fēn mì。 cháng qī bù yòng， xìng qì guān jiù huì shuāi tuì、 wěi suō， chéng wéi wú fǎ zài yòng zhī wù。
lǎo rén xìng shēng huó bù bì zhǐ xiàn yú wǎn jiān
cóng shí jiān shàng shuō， qīng zhuàng nián shí qī de xìng shēng huó， yī bān dōuzài wǎn jiān shàng chuáng hòu jìn xíng， ér zhè gè shí jiān duì lǎo nián rén lái shuō jiù bù yī dìng hé shì liǎo。 lǎo nián rén róng yì pí láo， jīng guò yī tiān de huó dòng， wǎn shàng zài kàn diàn shì， jiù huì gǎn dào pí fá bù kān， zěn me hái huì duì xìng shēng huó gǎn xīng qù ní ? suǒ yǐ， lǎo nián rén de fáng shì yí fàng zài shuì liǎo yī jué zhī hòu， huò zhě shì zài zǎo shàng qǐ chuáng zhī qián jìn xíng。 dāng rán， zhè yào gēn jù gè rén de qíng kuàng 'ér dìng。 xìng xué zhuān jiā rèn wéi， lǎo nián rén guò xìng shēng huó， bù bì zhǐ xiàn yú wǎn jiān， shénme shí jiān xìng chōng dòng lái liǎo， zhǐ yào jū zhù huán jìng tiáo jiàn xǔ kě， kě yǐ suí shí jìn xíng。
cóng cì shù shàng lái shuō， yìng yǐ nán xìng shēn tǐ chéng shòu néng lì wéi zhǔn。 gǔ jí《 sù nǚ jīng》 yuē：“ rén nián 'èr shí zhě， sì rì yī xiè ; sān shí zhě， bā rì yī xiè ; sì shí zhě， shí liù rì yī xiè ; wǔ shí zhě， èr shí rì yī xiè， cǐ fǎ yǔ yě。” yīn cǐ， kě cān zhào cǐ shù， 60～ 65 suì zhě， yǐ 2～ 3 zhōu 1 cì wéi yí ;65～ 70 suì zhě， yǐ 4～ 6 zhōu 1 cì wéi tuǒ。 shēn tǐ hǎo de， kě yǐ gēn jù xìng yù yào qiú， shìdàng suō duǎn shí jiān hé zēng jiā cì shù。 zǒng zhī yǐ shì hòu néng huò dé xìng mǎn zú、 shēn tǐ bù gǎn dào pí láo huò bù shì wéi zhǔn。
lǎo nián rén guò xìng shēng huó zhù yì shì xiàng
qiáng dù： rén lǎo liǎo， dòng zuò bù yí kuài、 bù yí měng， yìng hé fēng xì yǔ、 róu hé huǎn màn ; shí jiān bù yào cháng。
zī shì： yǐ cè wèi wéi hǎo， kě yǐ jié shěng tǐ lì ; tóu bù bù shì huò yòu huàn yùn、 tóu tòng shí， yìng tíng zhǐ xìng jiāo， tǎng xià xiū xī， hē diǎn chá shuǐ。
yǐn shí： fáng shì qián bù kě yǐn jiǔ， bù kě chīde guò bǎo huò hē shuǐ guò duō， zài xìng shì qián pái kōng xiǎo biàn。
fáng yì wài： yìng kòng zhì zì jǐ de qíng xù， bì miǎn guò dù xīng fèn hé guò jí xíng dòng， yào huǎn màn jìn xíng。
pèi hé hǎo： lǎo nián fū qī de fáng shì， zuì zhòng yào de shì hù xiāng pèi hé hǎo， yóu qí zài shì qián hé zuò 'ài zhōng bù kě bié bié niǔ niǔ， yào nǐ 'ēn wǒ 'ài， hù xiāng tǐ tiē， cái néng shǐ xìng shēng huó hé xié。 wàn yī nán fāng chū xiàn liǎo bó qǐ màn huò bó qǐ bù jiān， shèn zhì pí ruǎn shī bài， nǚ fāng yào liàng jiě， bù yào kǒu chū yuàn yán， fǒu zé huì jiā zhòng nán fāng xīn lǐ fù dān， zào chéng xìng jiāo shī bài。 yīn cǐ， yī dàn chū xiàn zàn shí zhàng 'ài， nán fāng qièwù jǐn zhāng， kě yǐ zàn tíng xìng jiāo， xiū xī yī huì， zài péi yǎng qíng xù， děng xìng chōng dòng chǎn shēng shí zài jìn xíng。
xìng shēng huó bù hé xié， zuò zuò xīn lǐ tiáoshì
xǔ duō fū fù cháng wéi xìng shēng huó de bù hé xié、 bù měi mǎn 'ér kǔ nǎo， yán zhòng zhě shèn zhì wēi jí hūn yīn guān xì。 jiū qí yuán yīn， dà bù fēn shì shǔ yú xīn lǐ yīn sù fāng miàn de。 wèicǐ， kě cóng yǐ xià jǐ fāng miàn jiā yǐ tiáoshì：
1、 xìng shēng huó hé xié， yào yǐ 'ài wéi jī chǔ。 fū qī xìng shēng huó de mùdì， bù jǐn jǐn shì shēng 'ér yù nǚ， tóng shí yě shì fū qī zhěng gè 'ài qíng shēng huó zhōng de yī gè zhòng yào zǔ chéng bù fēn， zuò 'ài de mùdì jiù shì wèile fēn xiǎng hé biǎo dá duì duì fāng de 'ài。
２、 zuò 'ài yào zhù zhòng guò chéng。 yòu wèi xìng xué zhuān jiā zhǐ chū： fū qī jiān de xìng shēng huó， yòu rú cóng shì tǐ yù huó dòng yī yàng， nǐ bù yào zhǐ duì zuì hòu de jiēguǒ gǎn xīng qù， yīnggāi duì huó dòng guò chéng gèng gǎn xīng qù。 bù rán de huà， jiù huì zào chéng fū qī jiànzuò 'ài guò chéng de jǐn zhāng， fǎn 'ér dá bù dào xìng gāo cháo。
３、 jí shí biǎo dá zuò 'ài de gǎn shòu。 xìng xué zhuān jiā zhǐ chū， fū fù zuò 'ài shí， yào jí shí hù xiāng tù lù zì jǐ de xìng gǎn shòu， bāng zhù duì fāng liǎo jiě mǐn gǎn bù wèi jí huò dé xìng kuài gǎn de jì qiǎo。
４、 zuò 'ài fāng shì yào duō yàng huà。 qiān piān yī lǜ de xìng shēng huó fāng shì， huì shǐ rén chǎn shēng dān diào fá wèi gǎn。 yào bù duàn biàn huà fān xīn， zhè yàng zuò kě yǐ tí gāo xìng shēng huó de xīn xiān gǎn hé xī yǐn lì， shǐ xìng shēng huó gèng wéi hé xié hé fù yòu mèi lì。
５、 yào chuàng zào liáng hǎo de zuò 'ài fēn wéi。 fū qī guò xìng shēng huó， yào shì xiān zuò hǎo zhǔn bèi， rú shì qián xǐ gè zǎo、 dǎ fā hái zǐ zǎo diǎn rù shuì děng， hái yào duō tán lùn xiē yǔ zuò 'ài yòu guān de shǐ rén xīng fèn de huà tí。
６、 hé xié xìng shēng huó， xū yào shuāng fāng gòng tóng de nǔ lì。 fū fù shuāng fāng yìng yuè dú yī xiē xìng zhī shí jī chǔ zhī lèi de shū jí， liǎo jiě nán nǚ xìng xīn lǐ hé xìng shēng lǐ de bù tóng tè diǎn， yǐ biàn hù xiāng pèi hé， hù xiāng jī fā， shǐ xìng shēng huó měi mǎn yú kuài。
xìng shēng huó bù hé xié kě néng dǎo zhì shī mián
měi guó shēng lǐ xué jiā jīng dà liàng diào chá fā xiàn， xìng shēng huó bù wán měi shì yī xiē rén shī mián de zhòng yào yuán yīn。 dāng yī gè rén zhèng chǔyú xìng yù wàng shèng shí qī 'ér yòu cháng shí jiān dé bù dào fā xiè shí， shén jīng xì tǒng biàn chǔyú gāo dù de kàng fèn zhuàng tài， yú shì shī mián biàn jiē zhǒng 'ér lái。 yīn cǐ， hěn duō xí guàn xìng shī mián de nán xìng， rú guǒ bù shì yīn wéi tài dà de gōng zuò yā lì hé tài duō de shì qíng yào kǎo lǜ， hěn kě néng jiù shì gēn xìng yā yì yòu guān。
ā měi de zhàng fū shī mián， ā měi yī xīn guān xīn zhàng fū de jiàn kāng， zǒng shì dān xīn gēn zhàng fū tóng fáng tài duō huì yǐng xiǎng dào tā de shēn tǐ jiàn kāng， yú shì yǔ zhàng fū fēn chuáng 'ér shuì， zhǐ yòu zhōu liù liǎng rén cái huí dào yī zhāng chuáng shàng， bù xiǎng què hū shì liǎo zhàng fū chǎn shēng zhè zhǒng jí bìng de gēn yuán。 yú shì， ā měi bù zài jiān chí yǔ zhàng fū fēn chuáng 'ér mián， hěn duō shì qíng dū kāi shǐ shùn qí zì rán。 ràng rén xiǎng bù dào de shì， liǎng zhōu hòu zhàng fū de shī mián jiù bù zhì zì yù liǎo。
nǚ rén zhòng shì qíng 'ài， ér nán rén gèng zhòng shì xìng 'ài。 nán rén tōng cháng“ yòu lèi bù qīng dàn”， ér jīng cháng tōng guò xìng shēng huó lái xuān xiè hài pà、 tòng kǔ、 bēi guān děng qíng xù。 tā men tòng kǔ de shí hòu， xìng shēng huó shì shǐ tā men gǎn dào 'ān wèi hé 'ān quán de hǎo fāng fǎ。 yīn cǐ， dāng zhàng fū qíng xù dī luò shí zhù dòng jiē jìn nǐ， qī zǐ bù fáng tōng guò xìng gǎn de zhī tǐ yǔ yán nǔ lì ràng tā xiāng xìn， tā kě yǐ xiàng nǐ qīng sù yī qiē。
hěn duō nǚ xìng wèile biǎo xiàn zì jǐ duì zhàng fū de 'ài， cháng cháng bǎ zhàng fū dāng zuò yī gè hái zǐ yī yàng， ràng tā yī lái shēn shǒu fàn lái zhāng kǒu， wú xíng zhōng bàn yǎn liǎo yī gè“ lǎo mā zǐ” de juésè。 kāi shǐ， nán rén hái xǐ huān bèi zhào gù， dàn rú guǒ cháng shí jiān ràng zhàng fū chǔyú yī gè bèi nì 'ài、 bèi guān zhù de huán jìng zhōng， zuò qī zǐ de huì jiàn jiàn dàn huà zì jǐ de qī zǐ juésè， tā de zhàng fū jiù yuè nán yǐ yòng xìng 'ài de fāng shì duì dài tā。
suǒ yǐ， qī zǐ xué huì zhǎng wò zhàng fū de“ xìng qíng xù”， duì hūn yīn dà yòu bì yì。
lián xù duō cì xìng shēng huó wēi hài jiàn kāng
jù《 jiàn kāng shēng huó bào》 bào dào， duō cì xìng shēng huó， shì zhǐ zài yī tiān nèi huò yī gè wǎn shàng yòu liǎng cì huò liǎng cì yǐ shàng de xìng shēng huó。 duō cì xìng shēng huó duì jiàn kāng shì bù lì de。
1. duì nán nǚ shuāng fāng 'ér yán， dū huì zào chéng tǐ lì shàng de jiào dà xiāo hào。 jiǔ zhī， bì rán zào chéng tǐ zhì jí jīng shén zhuàng tài、 sī wéi néng lì、 jì yì lì、 fēn xī néng lì de xià jiàng。
2. yóu yú xìng chōng dòng de lián xù yǔ duō cì fā shēng， wú lùn nán nǚ dū huì jiā zhòng xìng kòng zhì shén jīng zhōng shū yǔ xìng qì guān de fù dān， jīng cháng xìng de láolèi fǎn 'ér huì yǐn qǐ xìng gōng néng shuāi jié， zào chéng xìng gōng néng de“ wèi lǎo xiān shuāi”。
3. nán zǐ jīng cháng duō cì xìng shēng huó， huì yán cháng shè jīng shí jiān。 yīn wéi dì 'èr cì xìng shēng huó chū xiàn shè jīng de shí jiān kěn dìng bǐ dì yī cì cháng。 zhè jiù mái xià liǎo yòu fā yáng wěi、 bù shè jīng、 shè jīng yán chí、 xìng shēng huó wú kuài gǎn de yǐn huàn。
4. nán zǐ xìng shēng huó hòu yòu yī gè bù yìng qī， jí xìng shēng huó jié shù hòu yòu yī duàn shí jiān duì xìng cì jī bù zài fā shēng fǎn yìng。 duō cì xìng shēng huó jiù huì yán cháng qí bù yìng qī， yě jiù róng yì yǐn qǐ xìng gōng néng shuāi tuì。
5. nán zǐ jīng cháng duō cì xìng shēng huó， yóu yú xìng qì guān fǎn fù yǔ chí jiǔ xìng dì chōng xuè， huì yòu fā qián liè xiàn yán、 jīng náng yán děng jí huàn， zào chéng huì yīn bù bù shì、 yāo suān bèi tòng， hái huì chū xiàn xuè jīng。 nǚ zǐ jīng cháng duō cì xìng shēng huó， xìng qì guān shǐ zhōng chǔyú chōng xuè zhuàng tài， huì yòu fā pén qiāng chōng xuè、 xià shēn chén zhòng gǎn děng bù shì。
6. bù lùn nán nǚ， duō cì xìng shēng huó shí， xìng mǎn zú chéng dù kěn dìng bǐ qián yī cì chā， yú shì róng yì zào chéng xīn lǐ shàng de yǐng xiǎng， rèn wéi zì jǐ xìng néng lì yòu wèn tí， zuì zhōng kě néng dǎo zhì xīn yīn xìng de xìng gōng néng zhàng 'ài。
yě wài xìng shēng huó de zhǒng zhǒng bù yí
lǚ tú zǒng shì néng gěi rén bù yī yàng de gǎn jué， duì yú xìng shēng huó lái shuō yě shì rú cǐ。 xiāng gǎng dà xué xìng xué bó shì wéi huá shuō， mù qián xǔ duō guó jiādōu zhuān mén tuī chū liǎo yǐ xìng 'ài wéi zhù tí de lǚ yóu huó dòng， wéi 'ài lǚ men chuàng zào làng màn huán jìng zhī liǎo bù shǎo zhāo 'ér。 dàn shì， zài xiǎng shòu xīn xiān 'ér měi hǎo xìng 'ài huán jìng de tóng shí， yào gé wài zhù zhòng 'ān quán hé jiàn kāng。
wéi huá jiè shào shuō， shǒu xiān， yě wài xìng shēng huó bù yí jīng cháng cháng shì。 suī rán měi hǎo de zì rán huán jìng hěn róng yì jī fā 'ài lǚ de jī qíng， dàn wèi shēng zhuàng kuàng yǒng yuǎn shì bǎo zhèng xìng 'ài jiàn kāng de dì yī yào sù。 huán jìng wēn xīn、 gān jìng de jiǔ diàn cái shì zuì jiā xuǎn zé。
qí cì， dào wēn quán dù jiǎ shèng dì lǚ xíng shì bù shǎo 'ài lǚ de xuǎn zé。 wéi huá tí xǐng dào， jìn yù huán jìng róng yì dài lái jiāo chā gǎn rǎn， yóu qí shì nǚ xìng， yī dìng yào què rèn gōng gòng yù chí jīng guò yán gé xiāo dú hòu zài jìn pào。 suī rán jiǔ diàn huì wéi dà jiā zhǔn bèi hǎo jié jìng de yù jīn， dàn zuì hǎo hái shì suí shēn xié dài zì jǐ de máo jīn。 nǚ xìng zài pào wēn quán hòu zuì hǎo xuǎn zé lín yù de fāng shì jìn xíng zuì hòu qīng jié。
lìng wài， lǚ xíng zhōng yī wù qīng xǐ nán miǎn bù gòu jí shí。 wéi bó shì qiáng diào， yóu yú lǚ tú láolèi huò jū zhù wèi shēng tiáo jiàn chā， zài jiā shàng xìng shēng huó pín fán， nǚ xìng zuì róng yì chū xiàn niào dào yán、 pángguāng yán、 shèn yú shèn yán、 zǐ gōng nèi mó yán děng jí bìng， yán zhòng shí hái huì yǐn fā bù yùn。 yīn cǐ， xìng shēng huó yī dìng yào zhù yì wèi shēng， nèi yī yào qín huàn xǐ。
zuì hòu， lǚ xíng de xīng fèn hěn kě néng yǎn gài shēn tǐ de pí láo gǎn， yīn cǐ， jí shǐ shì zài mì yuè zhōng， xìng shēng huó yě yī dìng yào jié zhì， yǐ dì 'èr tiān bù gǎn dào pí láo、 jīng shén shàng jiā wéi zhǔn。
jiǔ zhǒng xìng shēng huó tǐ wèi
A tiān shǐ shì
tā yǎng wò zhe， shuāng shǒu fàng liǎng bàng， shuāng jiǎo shēn zhí。 nǐ miàn xiàng tā， kuà zuò zài tā shēn shàng， qū xī。 dāng tā wán quán jìn rù hòu， nǐ jìn liàng bǎ shēn tǐ 'ào hòu， shuāng shǒu fàng zài dì shàng zuò píng héng。
yōu diǎn： nǐ kě wán quán kòng zhì chā rù de kuài màn hé jiǎo dù， zhǎng wò gāo cháo de lái lín。 rú yào dá dào qiáng liè de G diǎn gāo cháo， qǐng jìn kě néng bǎ shēn tǐ 'ào hòu， bìng yǐ shuāng shǒu chéng tuō tǐ zhòng， gèng kě fàng yī liǎng gè zhěn tóu yú tā de tóu xià， ràng tā néng gèng qīng chǔ dì kàn dào nǐ de biǎo qíng。
B bèi xiàng shì
tā tǎng xià， shuāng jiǎo shēn zhí， tóu xià fàng yī gè zhěn tóu yǐ ràng tā néng kàn dào dòng zuò jìn xíng。 nǐ kuà zuò tā shēn shàng， miàn xiàng tā de tuǐ， shǒu zhǎng zhe dì yǐ zuò zhī chēng。 dāng nǐ niǔ dòng shí， yóu tā zhuā jǐn nǐ de dà tuǐ huò tún bù。
yōu diǎn： nǐ kě wán quán kòng zhì yī qiē， bāo kuò sù dù hé jiǎo dù， yīn 'ér gèng yì dá dào G diǎn gāo cháo， ér tā yě lè yú háo bù fèi lì dì“ zuò xiǎng qí chéng”。
C tuī zhuō shì
tā yǐ zài yǐ shàng， shuāng jiǎo shū shì dì zhāng kāi， jiǎo bǎn zhe dì。 nǐ kuà zuò zài tā zhōng jiān， běi xiàng tā shuāng shǒu shēn chū chù zhe zhuō miàn jiè lì， shuāng jiǎo xuán yú kōng zhōng。 tā zhuā jǐn nǐ de tún bù zuò qīng wēi dǎ juàn bǎi dòng， nǐ zé jǐn tiē shuāng tuǐ。
yōu diǎn： yòu bié yú diǎn xíng de gǒu zǎi shì。 zhè lǐ zī shì bù huì lìng xī gài gǎn dào chī lì， tā kě shū shì dì dài lǐng nǐ jìn rù gāo cháo， bìng shēn rù chù jí xiǎn dào měi yī cùn， jìn xíng shàng xià jí dǎ juàn dòng zuò。 tā shèn zhì kě yǐ kàn zhe zì jǐ de xiǎn jīng jìn rù nǐ de shēn tǐ， zēng jiā kuài gǎn。
D cè jī shì
nǐ cè wò de zhěn tóu shàng， tā guì zài nǐ de tún hòu， shàng shēn xiàng qián qīng， yǐ xī gài fēn kāi nǐ de shuāng jiǎo， yǐ biàn chā rù。
yōu diǎn： yóu yú nǐ de liǎng biān dà tuǐ jǐn kào zhe， kě dài gěi tā gèng dà kuài gǎn。 cǐ wài， zhè jiǎo dù kě chā rù gēngshēn， tè bié shì hé xiǎn jīng jiào duǎn xiǎo de nán shì。 dāng tā cì jī nǐ G diǎn shí， yě kě 'ài fǔ nǐ de xiōng bù。
E fēng chē shì
nǐ hé tā zài tóng yī fāng xiàng cè wò， nǐ bǎ shēn tǐ zuò dī， shuāng jiǎo jiā zhe tā， bìng xiàng hòu shēn chū shǒu bì zuò zhī chēng。 rán hòu tā yòng shuāng tuǐ bāo wéi nǐ de yāo zhī， bìng zhuā jǐn nǐ de dà tuǐ qīng róu bǎi dòng。
yōu diǎn： zhè zhǒng tǐ wèi de chā rù huì jiào qiǎn， néng jí zhōng cì jī xiǎn dào qián sān fēn zhī yī de mǐn gǎn wèi zhì， jí yīn jīng dǐng bù de shén jīng mò shāo。
F huá chuán shì
ràng tā tǎng zài yī zhāng shū shì 'ér jiān gù de yǐ shàng， shuāng jiǎo wēi zhāng， rán hòu nǐ kuà zuò zài tā shàng miàn， miàn xiàng tā， zhī hòu qū xī， shuāng jiǎo xiàng zhe tā de xiōng táng zhāng kāi， bìng zhī chēng zhe。 ràng tā zhuā jǐn nǐ de tún bù huò dà tuǐ， nǐ zé zhuā jǐn yǐ bèi， kāi shǐ qián hòu yí dòng。
yōu diǎn： diǎn xíng nǚ shàng nán xià zī shì， nǐ kě suí yì kòng zhì kuài màn huò dǎ juàn dòng zuò， yóu yú shuāng fāng fēi cháng jiē jìn， kě tóng shí jiē wěn huò 'ài fǔ duì fāng。
G hǎi xīng shì
ràng tā zuò zài dì shàng， shuāng shǒu cóng hòu zhī chēng zhe shēn tǐ， shuāng jiǎo shū shì dì shēn zhí。 nǐ zuò zài tā de dà tuǐ jiān， bèi xiàng tā， qū xī bìng zhāng kāi shuāng jiǎo， jiǎo bǎn zhe dì。 xìng jiāo shí， ràng tā de xiǎn jīng zuò wēi wēi dǎ juàn de yí dòng， tóng shí shōu jǐn nǐ de xiǎn dào jī ròu。
yōu diǎn： nǐ kě jì xù zuò zhù dǎo， bìng dé dào yī gè gèng néng cì jī G diǎn de jiǎo dù。 tóng shí， bìng kě lì yòng shuāng shǒu cì jī tā de gāo wán， tā yě kě fǔ mō nǐ de dà tuǐ jí jǐng xiàng děng mǐn gǎn bù wèi。
H pán zuò shì
tā pán xī 'ér zuò， nǐ miàn xiàng tā， zuò zài tā zhōng jiān， shuāng tuǐ wēi qū bāo wéi zhe tā de tún bù， hù xiāng zhuō jǐn duì fāng shuāng bì huò bèi bù， bìng qián hòu yí dòng， jiē jìn gāo cháo shí jiā kuài sù dù。
yōu diǎn： shuāng fāng néng tóng shí kòng zhì sù dù， kě xiān huǎn màn， tū rán jiā kuài huò jiā qiáng chā rù de shēn dù， rán hòu zài fàng huǎn lái yán cháng dá dào gāo cháo qián de kuài gǎn。 zhè wèi zhì bìng néng xíng chéng yī gè jiào yì cì jī xiǎn hé jiǎo dù。
I zhàn lì shì
nǐ kào zhe qiáng zhàn lì， wēi wēi fēn kāi shuāng tuǐ， miàn xiàng tā， yóu tā tái qǐ nǐ de shuāng tuǐ fàng yú tā de tún hòu， bǎ nǐ de shēn tǐ tí shēng， rán hòu niǔ dòng。
yōu diǎn： zhǐ yào yòu yī fú qiáng， nǐ yě kě gēn tā zài rèn hé dì fāng jìn xíng qīn mì xíng wéi。 cǐ wài， yóu yú nǐ de shuāng tuǐ jiāo dié， yīn dào shōu zhǎi liǎo， cóng 'ér yì kě zēng jiā tā de kuài gǎn。
Sex life means to satisfy their sexual needs fixed or sexual contact and sexual intercourse.
Should know that sex is a very sensitive, very specific topic, it is human behavior in a variety of the most common and natural phenomenon of normal existence. It is purposeful, is a natural process. Sex, including hugging, kissing, caressing, sexual intercourse and so on. Everyone of human sexuality is reproduction and development of human society one of the basic elements. Sex life is highly covert, should be specific and exclusive, and is a very serious noble act. Of course, sex itself has dual nature, we need to promote high ethical standards that have sex, and resolutely opposed to low-level dirty, irresponsible sexual behavior.
Correct treatment of the hymen
Rupture of the hymen: after sexual intercourse because the hymen rupture is usually in the traditional concept of Bianba hymen is intact as to whether she had sex only test method. In ancient Greece, the bride and groom during the wedding, there are two called "Ma Shite" of women to follow, as the melon breaking witness. The so-called "broken melon", is the groom white towel wrapped around his left finger, and then _insert_ed into the female vagina, if there is blood on the handkerchief that was a virgin, confirmed by the Ma Shite. As the bride before the wedding, a bath is Ma Shite help, some have been sexually abused girls will buy Ma Shite, first blood with birds and other animal blood into the vagina, to confuse the man. In our history, "Yuan Red" is also a popular and inspection. Although the "test Zhen" Song have specific examples, but the early works of Jin Chen had mentioned that the examination. Many literary works, writers in describing the wedding night, they often make some "experience of red" the delicate description. In some villages, past the older daughter seems very concerned about whether a virgin, often using various methods to teach the man to verify. They have paid, is that whether the woman's hymen rupture to the hymen to identify whether the woman was at fault Chen. Shi Zhen concept in modern society, although gradually weakened, but in some people, especially the minds of men, but can not say no. Self-esteem the most precious: a young girl of course, self-esteem, it should not and hair sexual relations. But if he does inevitably happen, or do not turn too much baggage. While sexual intercourse hymen will break, but the hymen is broken is not caused by sexual intercourse, strenuous exercise, vaginal administration, some of the heavy manual labor can be induced rupture of the hymen. Childhood ignorance of a foreign body into the vagina and masturbation, also cause the hymen rupture. Between the hymen and virgin and can not be equated. Between the hymen rupture and disorderly conduct, can not indiscriminately equated. But in general, most unmarried women not healthy sexual relations before, the hymen is intact, the wedding night will be "see red." After all, brought up in traditional Chinese culture has a hymen man complex, so the young girl must not have sexual relations with people easily, but also in their daily lives to protect themselves from the hymen rupture in the non-normal circumstances. Besides the presence of the hymen, dirty things to prevent the outside world into the vagina, the hymen is a good man and apes of the vaginal part of the bottom of a narrow vaginal orifice film. Can be as sexual intercourse and other reasons such as damage, leaving the hymen marks (carunculae hymenales). From Mueller's pipes (broad tubal) originated in the vagina and urogenital sinus vaginal vestibule, in the event of the course is opened up by two, so the junction of the two remaining second half of the opening of membrane - hymen.
Hymen is a woman in the vagina and vaginal vestibule of the boundary Department, around the vaginal opening of a film-like organization. Also known as vaginal membrane.
Smooth ride for the first time sex
Attention to sexual health
Body clean and shape the United States is to promote the sexual measures, must pay attention to the genitals of health, both sides must clean the external genitalia, sexual life of women to solutions of urine after a urinary tract infection can be reduced. Sexual stimulation must be gentle movement, comfort for the degree, do not touch the urethra and anus, menstrual period must not be sex life, the wedding should be as much as possible to avoid menstrual period. Pregnancy, puerperium can not be sex life.
Requested information on the site are familiar with genital
Female sex organ is the vagina, remember not to the urethra, anus as a vagina for sex.
Wedding should not be excessive drinking, not fatigue
Excessive drinking is often the beginning excitement, after a suppression period, can not complete the sexual life, fatigue may reduce sexual pleasure, not even the sexual life will be reluctantly to life for the future of the shadow.
Sex should not be too frequent
Sex life will consume energy, not too frequent. However, several sex wedding night is also common to both sides not feel fatigue is appropriate. After the sleep sex life is important, some say sex is more important than food after the sleep. In addition, we should also pay attention to nutrition, especially protein supplement, milk, meat, fish, eggs are high-quality protein, but also eat more fruits and vegetables. Generally do not need high-level tonic such as ginseng, deer horn, etc..
Travel Marriage Notes
Recently, more and more travel for marriage, travel must choose clean hotel, bedding must be clean. Travel must be Qinhuan underwear, toilet paper and washing to lower body with enough towels, utensils. Baths must be sterile. Travel is generally more tired, should reduce the frequency of sexual activity. Not in the open air sex.
Sex time
Many people are sleep before, so that less of sleep. Night parties often can not sync. Affect sleep. Generally not carried out in the morning, sex life, the two sides is always the need to rest after the work would affect the sexual energy.
Activities filled with the love, affection, attachment, gentle, have a very good feeling, sometimes a way or misconduct will result in this or that problem. The following eight cases of sexual life is very possible, experience must correctly handle these situations.
Correct handling of sexual accidents
1. Sexual life most allergic hypersensitivity is due to the cream latex and other contraceptives and drugs suited, women often feel vaginal irritation, burning. Once allergic reactions, can be water, wet towels or paper towels wipe or lavage to remove residual liquid, cream and the like, and then wash in warm water.
2. Spasm and pain may be due to movement and sexual lives are too intense and over-stretch the muscle. Way to avoid sexual foreplay to full, action should be gentle. The event should be stopped until the symptoms subsided.
3. Contraception with the decline in almost all married couples have experienced condom or diaphragm rupture fall accidents. Correct approach is: twice within 72 hours after oral contraceptives; if the condom off in vagina, just pull out and you can gently pinch the roots.
4. Diaphragm does not come out and sometimes take more drastic action will be deep into the diaphragm, making it difficult to remove. In this regard, take squatting, and then hold your breath abdominal contraction, diaphragm will be pushed out to be enough to get the position, he will remove it.
5. Pelvic congestion female sexual arousal, the large influx of pelvic tissue formation of blood congestion state. At this point, you should be supine, the hips with a pillow booster for half an hour, 3-4 times daily, can help the blood reflux, if necessary, Aspirin and other anti-inflammatory drugs.
6. Urinary tract infection in general, up to 4-5 times per week, or every time of life too long are counted in the "excessive" in the column, caused by excessive bacteria invade the urethra sex life and even up the bladder, causing urinary tract infection.
7. Neck pain and neck stiffness or pulled muscles prone to sprains, a towel twisted into an available around the neck around and fasten both ends to support the head and reduce the burden on the muscles.
8. Back sprain normal sex life should not have pain. Sex life back muscles back pain more common in relatively weak women, treatment is immediately bent side, a pillow between your knees and local cold compress.
Note the first postpartum sex life
Pregnancy and postpartum in a stage of life, was forced to stop, until finally giving birth, and end up son, perineal wound healing, and sexual life can also be lifting the ban, and yet there are many women in the first sex life appear in the perineal wound dehiscence, because the termination of the sexual life of pain with their words, "really disappointed!." What is the reason for this? Shanghai Renai Hospital of Gynecology Yuanzhu Ren said:
First, postpartum recovery may be related to sexual life time. Perineal incision wound usually takes 7 days to heal, and seam removal. At this point, the surface structure of the perineum is healed, but the deep muscle and fascia can take 6-8 weeks to repair. If the early resumption of sexual activity can lead to wound dehiscence, bleeding. Yuan Zhuren to remind those that cause perineal tears in women with particular attention to their wounds more vulnerable to infection, preferably in a medical examination to determine the sex life has been healed before you start.
Second, with his wife's general condition, and if the physical weakness of his wife, malnutrition, anemia, or inflammation of the wound, these will delay wound healing time, early sexual activity can easily result in wound dehiscence.
Third, the situation may be related to wound closure. In addition to the epidermis with perineal sutures, the inner layer of muscle, subcutaneous fat layer were sutured with catgut. Since the absorption of human tissue catgut significant individual differences in the quality with catgut, the perineum is strict disinfection and other issues will also affect the absorption of human tissue, delayed wound healing.
Fourth, of course, as the man his wife in late pregnancy, postpartum abstinence longer time, once the restoration of married life, often violent action, this can easily lead to perineal injury, bleeding, dehiscence.
Therefore, we have to wait postpartum perineal wound healed completely behind the recoverability of life. First sex, the husband moves to be gentle, when to resume married life or sex life after the discovery of vaginal bleeding, seek medical attention immediately, Mok for "shy" and stop the bleeding trouble himself hastily, so as not to delay treatment.
Sex life of 83 other known
In the Chinese language in ancient times, the "sex" in the title indeed grew. These words appear in different times and in different contexts have different meanings, showing the richness of Chinese language and people on the "sex" in different historical periods of moral judgments.
1】 【sexual intercourse since the most recent formal written language, often used in medicine.
2, 【love】 West to the word.
3, 【love】 Mr. Yang Jiang made use of the word favorite.
4, 【】 made man of the ancients that the purpose is to continue the family line, it shows in the past people of "Happy" and "health" to ignore the two functions.
5, 【】 modern sex life written language. People have sex as a way of life.
6, 【】 modern written language behavior. A sociological term, maintaining a neutral moral judgments.
7, 【】 Ibid sexual activity.
8, sexual intercourse】 【ancient written language, multi-purpose medicine. The privacy of sexual activity is.
9, atrial】 【written language, traditional medicines are used.
10】 【intercourse written language, traditional medicines are used.
11 Intercourse】 【written language, people and animals common. There is a clear sexual contempt.
12, 【】 image of Duke, said on behalf of the ceremony, non-old saying. Ceremony for the Duke's, so that the gift of the Duke of Zhou, the Duke of Zhou ritual core of man on ethics, human relations and core couples intercourse, so it is said.
13】 【Duilun elegant mating said on behalf of. The original Confucian term loan after Buddhism, and then lend to men and women after mating.
14】 【rape of women and forced sexual relations, legal language. The patriarchal society of sexual crimes.
15】 【gang rape of two or more men raped a woman at the same time the behavior of legal language. Male society of extreme description of the crime.
16】 【sodomy old saying, which means men rape men, legal language. Strong over the weak sexual humiliation.
17】 【Shun evil woman agreed to under the improper activities. Common law. This behavior has been a lot of people today questioned whether it also constitutes a crime is suspected.
18, 【】 image of the word adultery, which means a lot.
19, 【】 ancient written language of adultery, both men and women willing to have sex. Common law. But now being questioned.
20, hooked up】 【"adultery," the saying goes.
21, a relationship 【】 "sexual relations" Abbreviations.
22】 【sexual immorality written language, derogatory, common in literary works.
23, Lane】 【into the language of early vernacular fiction.
24】 【cloud probably read, "Dream of Red Mansions" all remember the term. Very image, very romantic.
25】 【go to bed the most straightforward formulation.
26, 【】 image on behalf of said bed.
27】 【feel trapped, "True Story of Ah Q" in the name. It shows the creativity of the Chinese literati.
28, No.】 【Big prostitutes industry terminology.
29, shelling】 【prostitutes industry terminology. Have this modern poet wrote a poem.
30 wells】 【image description.
31】 【drilling a description of the sexual process.
32】 【drilling verb, by the generation of the image. Dodo the stop, with the meaning of test.
33 holes】 【verb, by the generation of the image.
34, feeling nervous】 【playing with the "hole."
35, cultivated】 【metaphor.
36, hard】 【metaphor.
37, reclamation】 【metaphor. A good study of the Virgin.
38, to break new ground】 【metaphor. Very funny, people say "virgin", "maiden" and when there is not even a trace of contact with nature.
39】 【sowing metaphor.
40, vat】 【trace and metaphor.
41, slipped child】 【play metaphor. Emphasized the feeling of sliding movement. Example: Today, how do you out so much water? Straight shot slip child.
42 things children】 【saying.
43】 【do solid work of children is the most practical activities.
44, said on behalf】 【out thing, with slightly derogatory.
45, 【】 from Taiwan, a weekly event the same name novel, the hero grocer tired all day, had to compress to a weekend sex activities, so it is said.
46 Ibid】 【big thing a few. Popular literature.
47, 【*】 While speaking of indecent, but almost all men and women used. It is actually close to the body. Savage, sexy.
48, dry】 【meaning there is a vent.
49, 【Japan】 The most popular language. According to some sexologist research, there are some national to "eat" and "day" as the same words. Also research, many nations are using this "word" to mean sexual activity.
50, X】 【Day parade with 【*】 the same. .
51, 【】 degenerate into an exercise scolded. Originally used by men, and now the girls are also used, of course, to "rely on."
52, do】 【gentle on behalf of the said.
53, 【get】 equivalent to do.
54, 【full】 saying.
55, 【stack (sound)】 do not know how to write, but people say the word West, meaning very rich.
56, No.】 【stack Ibid.
57, 【g】 sound: ke, this reduced to grams of characters. Parts of an image of young people say, the boys always say.
58, 【】 operating the switch by the word sound, and now has become a definite article.
59, 【】 Exercises turn all sound words, relatively gentle, mostly used by women, usually alone, emotionally.
60】 【to another "cut" transition from a point in another formulation.
61】 【_insert_ commonly used words on the network. Some of the network name is called a plug.
62, _insert_】 【medical terms now.
63, upper body】 【folk politely say. Always talk to a woman in the back, said she had let so and so to the upper body.
64】 【also said on behalf of. Often a woman after sex is not enjoyable, on the tired man, I have to! Should never underestimate the weight of these three words I would like it enough to make some men terrorized!
65, 【Office of the common man is a woman in the post-conquest of others say.
66, what a】 【that a vague sexual expression.
67, that thing】 【Ibid.
68】 【that point slightly derogatory thing.
69, 【69】 image by substituting. Non-traditional sex, but loved by men and women for fashion, is often used by gay way. But decent people in this way is spurned, that is not decent behavior.
70, 【99】 image by substituting. Back into style.
71, XX】 【love the words written on a cover-expression, is scared of the times people used the expression.
72, ML】 【sex abbreviation. The following is the name of animal mating
73, mating】 【written language.
74, a chain】 【dog fighting a civil right image of a dog mating statement.
75, from the Yangzi】 【dogs mating on a civil argument.
76】 【Dog & dog mating dog a civil claim the image.
77, Alarm Cat】 civil mating an image of the cat saying, because when the cat wants to mating calls miserable, so it is said.
78, 【】 folk from pigs fed an image of the mating statement, because when the pigs to mate almost always stick together, so it is said.
79, 【playing tired of Swine "from the tired," another way of saying.
80, sub】 【Shao fish mating of an image view, mating is not due to direct contact with the fish, so it is said.
81, egg】 【foot of a private image of the chicken mating statement.
82】 【mating animals mating formal written language.
83, animal mating】 【Nao Chun Pan said, because animals usually mate in the spring, during mating movements, abnormal behavior, so there is that.
Five strokes to mobilize women love emotions
Indeed, as many men want their woman in bed Jiao blow climax after another, but a considerable number of men having sex in their own time or attachment size problem on the furniture. In fact a woman is very emotional creatures, the sex of the simple piston Yundonghuozhe Da a long time brother and 不能 helping them achieve the pole, the opposite Youshi fatigue or discomfort but may also raise impatient (Psychological Pursuit of course 少数 female sexual Chu Wai Chun ).
Therefore, up to a woman really emotional, so that they feel is the most easily excited and easily reach the peak of the fastest and best way to orgasm. Unfortunately, many men like the single shot straight on sex flirting in front of the steps either to skip or ignore the chaos that is a hasty touch rubbed the wrong, in fact, if you are clever to use natural means can a woman lit the fire of desire, then you fingertips beat burning, but intercourse is only a matter of course the final step, the energy is released to ignite it, then in the end in bed with that flirting means to do the following, we compare several bar.
First, the tongue of the entertainment
Oral sex for modern men and women should no longer be a strange way sex, mutual oral sex before sexual stimulation is a rapid accumulation of exciting, powerful weapon. One may say, you said let the woman emotionally it? Oral sex is not a simple physical arm? In fact, more women oral sex for men, women and a man willing to have oral sex or passion there are very few skills, of course, this behavior may still exclude women, but once they try a few times, I believe They would like this feeling, because not only physical stimulation, more of a man to pay his own as a joy, shy, moving and well-being, these mixed together, enough to let your inner woman emotions surging up to quickly excited. But be noted, first to pay attention to technique, which can learn from other articles. The second is not Taimian Jiang, to let the woman to accept rejection. The third is not too long, so as to avoid the external female genital infection. Oral sex between husband and wife may be just an entertainment tool, but it can certainly give mixed between men and women enjoy the feeling of happiness.
2, finger dance
3, wild beauty
Men taste, such as storms, such as showers unreasonable over the woman's head broke off, without any explanation of your body by the Under arrogant attitude, and strong physiques, as women feel that they are wind in the grass, leaving from each other, but enjoy the thrill of being torn, this is not abnormal for a considerable number of women, wild men sometimes let their own style into the exciting high-speed rail. As the nature of women is a bear who, their instinct is stronger desire for the opposite sex, so when a man full of rough-style action, often make women produce great satisfaction, as well as their ability on the other side is the temptation to self-confidence All this excitement enough for a woman. Of course, the need to explain, rough not rough, nor is it easy movement, while a dominant feeling, as not of rape (of course some women do have rape unconscious, but still a minority, and is too rough do not become a prelude to the simple and crude behavior), so techniques of crude is generally pave the way in the situation after the operation, then rain, your rough just to convey a signal you love each other, rather than the information you are beast. So rough can be very beautiful, as long as you grasp the level of attainment.
4, the temptation Cantabile
Dirty jokes, lewd stories, tantalizing hints of what language is more likely to move than women, and women are inherently vulnerable to the lure of language, clever I like spring will never lack a man woman, romantic love, then, nauseating to the dregs But if the situation allows a woman such as silk eye, heart, such as cakes, Tuier soft, the body of water do really become a wonderful man ah, do not believe silence is golden in the bed of the creed, the only way a woman you feel boring, language, which sentence is indeed the case, was able to mobilize women innermost desires, so difficult to control the excitement of a woman, she becomes eager to sex, want your next step, then the subsequent behavior does not have ripened fruit? So, if your mouth is stupid, then quickly buy a few of the jokes Daquan Daquan and then catching some love it, although not as good as the professional expert powerful language, you too can make your woman happy. Remember that women always like to love it, even if these words could not be more fake fake, as long as she loved that, she can still intoxicated with fly overhead, and it is not, if you have a good a good voice, then Let sing love songs, a lot are, and nice song and language, can make a woman obsessed with them. OK, so to satisfy your woman right, with your seductive voice harvest perfect woman.
5, the flashbacks
Elderly sex life
Old to 70 years of sustainable living
Most of the sexual life of the elderly can continue to more than 70 years, some of them can be kept to 80 years old, 90-year-old individual still requirements. According to medical reports, and even 90-year-old, male testicles still produce some sperm. Jiangxi Province, who retired on 146 city survey of sexual function in men 65 to 70 years old, there is no requirement and only 12%.
Not over his sixtieth of the old, the age of sexual growth will not immediately ruin, loss of reproductive function only, while the reproductive function and sexual function are two different things.
Abstinence does not prolong life insurance fine
Elderly sex life need not be limited to night
From the time that the young period of life, usually after going to bed at night, and this time is not necessarily suitable for the elderly. Old fatigue, after a day of activities, night watch TV, you feel fatigued, how could sexual life interested in? Therefore, the elderly on housing issues slept after, or in the morning get up before. Of course, according to their individual circumstances. Sex experts believe that the elderly have sex, not only at night, what the timing of impulse came, as long as living conditions permit, you can at any time.
From the number of terms, the capacity should be subject to the male body. Ancient "by Su-Nu" said: "person-years 20 persons, on the 4th of a discharge; 30 persons, on the 8th of a discharge; 40 persons, on the 16th of a discharge; 50 persons, on the 20th of a vent, the French also. "Therefore, it can refer to this number, 60 to 65 years of age to 2 to 3 weeks 1 suitable; 65 to 70 years of age to 4 to 6 weeks for the proper 1. Good health, according to sexual desire and shorten the time and increase the number of appropriate. In short order afterwards to obtain sexual gratification, the body does not feel fatigue or discomfort prevail.
Note the elderly have sex
Strength: old people, action should not fast, not fierce, should be sweetness and light, soft and slow; time not long.
Position: the lateral as well, to save your energy; head discomfort or dizziness, headache, should cease sexual intercourse, lie down and rest, drink tea.
Food: Housing beforehand not to drink too much can not overeat or drink, in the prior emptying of urine.
Accident prevention: should control their emotions, to avoid over-excited and hasty actions, to slow.
With the good: old couples sexual intercourse, the most important match is good, especially in the sex in advance and not botch, to your grace I love, mutual caring, can make sexual harmony. Male erection in case there is not slow or erectile strong, weak and even failed to understand the woman, not complaints from, or will add to the psychological burden of the man, resulting in sexual intercourse failed. Therefore, once a temporary obstacle, the man not to stress, can suspend the sexual intercourse, take a break, and then cultivate emotional, so when the sexual impulse generation further.
Disharmonious sexual life, doing the psychological adjustment
Many couples often disharmonious sexual life, is not happy and worried, serious and even endanger the marriage. The reason most are psychological aspects. This could be adaptive from the following aspects:
1, sexual harmony, to use love as the basis. The purpose of marital sex life, not just having children, but also husband and wife in the love life is an important part, for the purpose of love is to share and express their love for each other.
2, make love to pay attention to the process. One expert pointed out that sexuality: marital sex life, just like in sports, like, you should not only be interested in the final result should be more interested in the process of activities. Otherwise, it will cause tension in the process of marital love intercropping, but not reach orgasm.
3, in time for the expression of feelings of love. Sex experts said the couple make love, you should promptly tell each other their sexual feelings, help each other understand the sensitive parts of the skills and access to sexual pleasure.
4, for love means to diversify. Stereotyped sex life, lead to the tedious sense. Renovation to the ever-changing, so as to enhance their sex lives fresh and attractive to a more harmonious sexual life, and charming.
5, to create a good atmosphere for love. Couples having sex, should be prepared in advance, such as pre-bath, sent their children to sleep so early, but also more and more about making people love the excitement of the topic.
6, harmonious sexual life requires efforts on both sides. Some of the couple should read books like the knowledge base to understand the psychological and sexual physiology of men and women of different characteristics in order to complement each other, inspire each other to enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
Disharmonious sexual life may lead to insomnia
The survey found a large number of American physiologist, sexual life is not perfect is an important reason why some people insomnia. When a person who is in the sexually active period of time not to vent, the nervous system will be in a highly nervous excitement, so sleep would come one after another. Therefore, many men used to insomnia, if not because of too much work pressure and too many things to consider, it may be related with sexual repression.
Ami's husband, insomnia, Ami as one concerned about her husband's health, always worried about the same room with her husband too much will affect his health, then sub-bed and slept with her husband, only two talents back to bed Saturday, do not want to overlook her husband have such illnesses. So, Amy and her husband no longer adhere to bed and sleep hours, many things began to go with the flow. People would have thought that after two weeks of treatment her husband's insomnia is not a self-healing.
Women love attention, while men pay more attention to sex. Men often "do not cry easily," but often venting through the sexual life to fear, suffering, pessimism, and other emotions. Their pain, sex life is to make them feel good way to comfort and safety. So when her husband take the initiative to approach you when depressed, the wife may wish to adopt a sexy body language to let him believe that he can talk to you all.
Many women in order to show his love for her husband, often as a child, like her husband, let him not cook food to mouth, virtually played a "maid" role. Began, men also like to be cared for, but if the husband in a long time to be spoiled, to be concerned about the environment, the wife will gradually weaken the role of his wife, her husband's way more difficult to deal with her sex.
Therefore, the wife learns to master her husband's "emotional" great benefit of marriage.
The health hazards of life on several occasions
According to "Health Al-Hayat" reported on many occasions of life, is within a day or an evening with two or more sex life. Multiple sex life is detrimental to health.
1. For both men and women, the physically larger will result in consumption. The long, necessarily lead to physical and mental state, thinking ability, memory, analytical skills decline.
2. Because of the continuous and repeated occurrence of impulses, both men and women will increase the control of nerve and organ burden, frequent fatigue that will cause sexual dysfunction, sexual function caused by "premature aging."
3. Men often repeated sexual life, will extend ejaculation time. For a second sexual ejaculation time there certainly longer than the first. This laid-induced impotence, no ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, sexual pleasure without the hidden danger.
4. Men's sex life should not be after a period, that of life for some time after the stimulus is no longer react. Will extend the life of many of its refractory period, also easily lead to sexual function decline.
5. Frequently repeated sexual men, due to repeated and persistent sexual organs to congestion will induce prostatitis, Seminal other diseases, resulting in perineal discomfort, back pain, there will be blood fine. Women often repeated sexual life, sexual organs is always in congestive state, will induce pelvic congestion, lower body heaviness and discomfort.
6. Regardless of gender, number of sexual life, sexual satisfaction is definitely worse than the one before, so likely to cause psychological effects that their own sexuality problems, eventually may lead to psychogenic sexual dysfunction.
Not all the wild sex life
Journey do not always give the same feeling, same is true for sex. China Sexology Boshi Wei University of Hong Kong, said that many countries are specifically introduced to the theme of sex tourism activities, to create a romantic environment for couples to move a lot of child support. However, in the enjoyment of sex fresh and beautiful environment, we should especially pay attention to safety and health.
Vivaldi, said, first of all, the wild sex life should not always try. Although the beautiful natural environment is very easy to inspire lovers of passion, but health is always a guarantee that the first element of sexual health. Environment, warm, clean hotel is the best choice.
Second, to the hot spring resort travel is the choice of many couples. Vivaldi reminded that the bath environment likely to result in cross-infection, especially women, must be confirmed before the public bath soak sterilized. Although the hotel will be prepared to clean towels, but better to carry your own towel. Women bathing shower after the best way to choose the final cleaning.
In addition, the travel time is not enough clothes washing is inevitable. Dr. Wei stressed that, due to travel or live in poor sanitary conditions fatigue, coupled with frequent sex life, women most vulnerable to urethritis, cystitis, pyelonephritis, endometritis etc disease so serious that it caused infertility. Therefore, we must pay attention to sexual health, change and wash underwear to ground.
Finally, the excitement of travel is likely to cover up the body's fatigue, therefore, even in the honeymoon, the sex life must be restricted in order to not feel tired the next day, the spirit of good and prevail.
Nine sex position
A Angels-style
He sit with his hands up on both sides, legs straight. You face him, sitting across him, knees. When he fully entered, you try to bend the body, the hands on the floor for balance.
Advantages: You can fully control the speed and angle of _insert_ion, master began. To achieve a strong G-spot orgasm, if possible, after the body bend, and with both hands supporting the weight, it can put one or two pillows under his head so that he can more clearly see your face.
B-type back
He lay down, legs straight, the first delegation of a pillow so that he could see the action carried out. You sit across him, for his legs, hands palm for support. When you twist from his grasp your thighs or buttocks.
Advantages: You can totally control everything, including speed and angle, and thus easier to achieve the G spot orgasm, but he also willing to easily "sit back and enjoy."
Table C-type push
He leaned against the chair, feet comfortably open the soles of the ground. You are sitting across the middle of the North to reach out touch the desktop, leveraging his hands, his feet hanging in the air. He held on to a small circle your hips to swing, you are close to the legs.
Advantages: Unlike a typical paparazzi-style. Here the knee will not find it difficult to position, he can comfortably take you into the climax, and in-depth touch every inch of insurance Road, to move up and down and circular motion. He can even look at your own risk stems into your body and increase pleasure.
D sideswipe type
Your side of the pillow, he knelt down in your hip, the upper body to lean forward to separate your feet knee to _insert_.
Advantages: close to your thigh with both sides, can bring him more pleasure. In addition, this angle can be _insert_ed deeper, especially for small risk stems shorter men. When you stimulate the G point, he can also touch your chest.
E windmill
You and his side in the same direction, you sit low to the body, his legs clamped to his arm for support after. Then he used his legs around your waist and lose your legs swinging gently.
Advantages: This position will be shallow _insert_ion, can focus on risk Road to stimulate the first third of the sensitive location, and the top of the nerve endings in the penis.
F rowing style
Let him lie on a comfortable and sturdy chair, feet slightly open, and then you sit cross above him, facing him, after the knees, legs toward his chest open, and supporting. Let him grasp your hips or thighs, you will lose back and started moving around.
Advantages: typical female on male under the posture, you can easily control the speed or the circle action, because both sides are very close, kissing or caressing each other simultaneously.
Starfish-type G
Let him sit on the floor, his hands supporting the body from the back, feet comfortably straight. You sit between his legs, back him, and knees and spread his legs, feet the ground. Intercourse, the risk of him making a slight circular motion to move the stem while tightening the muscles of your insurance Road.
Advantages: You can continue to play a dominant role, and get a better angle to stimulate the G point. At the same time, and can use both hands to stimulate his testicles, he can also touch your thighs and neck and other sensitive areas.
H sit cross-legged style
He sat cross-legged, you face him, sitting in his middle, surrounded by his legs slightly bent hips, arms or back of each grab hold of each other, and before and after the move, near the height of speed.
Advantages: Both sides can also control the speed, first slowly, suddenly speed up or enhance the depth of _insert_ion, and then slow down to extend the pleasure before orgasm. This position and can easily stimulate the formation of a nuclear point of risk.
I Stand
You stand against the wall, legs slightly separated, for him, he lifted your legs up on his hip, put your body upgrade, and then twist.
Advantages: As long as there is a wall, you can place him in any intimate act. In addition, as your legs overlap, vaginal narrowing, and thereby also increase his pleasure.
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