idiom : Reduplication > show neither inferiority nor superiority
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Neither haughty nor humble
  Explanation: Kang: arrogant; base: low, low self-esteem. Means people have the right sense of proportion, neither humble nor arrogant.
  Usage: Joint type; as the predicate attribute; described people doing things in a measured, appropriate
  Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" 56 back: "He is far from unhappy past into account, neither haughty nor humble, their grandmother, and we are not good, listen to this speech he also necessary to try and explain the change for the better."
  Examples: He is far from unhappy past into account, ~, their grandmother, and we are not good, listen to this speech he also necessary to try and explain the change for the better. (Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" fifty-sixth back)
bù kàng bù bēi
  Interaction with others is neither arrogant nor inferiority
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No. 3
  Also as "not anti non-inferior."
   Not proud, not inferiority. Describe the attitude of the people or language decent. "Dream of Red Mansions," the fifth six back: "He that is far from unhappy past into account, not against not base their grandmother and we would not be good, listen to this speech he also necessary ashamed of changed for the better." "Children Heroes, "the 18th back:" Ku neither haughty nor humble, by half a ceremony, shortcut: 'Adults do as you wish.' "Ruan Jing" Mountains Winter Morning ":" These two handsome young KMT aide saw linmu , neither haughty nor humble, hearty attitude, on the initiative to come, open the cigarette smoke, please linmu and others. "
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No. 4
  词 目 不亢不卑
  发 音 bù kàng bù bēi
  释 义 亢:高傲;卑:低、自卑。指对人有恰当的分寸,既不高傲,也不自卑。
  出 处 明·朱之瑜《答小宅生顺书十九首》:“圣贤自有中正之道,不亢不卑,不骄不诌,何得如此也!”
  示 例 他这远愁近虑,~,他们奶奶就不是和咱们好,听他这一番话,也必要自愧的变好了。(清·曹雪芹《红楼梦》第五十六回)
  用 法 作谓语、定语;形容为人处事有分寸
  故 事 春秋末年齐国宰相晏婴奉命出使楚国,楚王百般刁难他,先是让他从小门进城,然后说他是矮子,用最差的饭菜招待他,最后用两个齐国囚犯来羞辱他,均被他的不卑不亢的态度及高超的外交才能所折服,结果楚王自取其辱
  近义词 不屈不挠,不骄不诌。
  反义词 高人一等,低三下四。
成语词典
  成语名称 不亢不卑 汉语拼音 bù kàng bù bēi 成语释义 亢:高傲;卑:低、自卑。指对人有恰当的分寸,既不低声下气,也不傲慢自大。 成语出处 明·朱之瑜《答小宅生顺书十九首》:“圣贤自有中正之道,不亢不卑,不骄不诌,何得如此也!” 使用例句 他这远愁近虑,不亢不卑,他们奶奶就不是和咱们好,听他这一番话,也必要自愧的变好了。
  ★清·曹雪芹《红楼梦》第五十六回
English Expression
  1. n.:  show neither inferiority nor superiority,  be cordial but independent,  Neither haughty nor humble,  neither overbearing nor servile,  neither supercilious nor obsequious
French Expression
  1. adj.  n'être ni arrogant ni servile, ni hautain ni obséquieux
Thesaurus
Mindful, be extremely open-minded, avoid conceit and impetuousity, be modet and prudent, do not feel ashamed to ask and learn from the rank and file; be modest enough to consult one's inferiors, Pride hurts Him Benefit, A modest bootstrap amplifier, Yiqiankuiying, Better Better be a piece of broken jade than unbroken tile, proof drag out an ignoble existance, character, ability to appreciate a person's character and capability, Steadfast in upholding its, Modesty To listen
Antonym
grovel, cringe, no one dare harm me— an arrogant boast, forget, forget oneself, be more worthiless than pigs, ingratiate oneself with someone to gain one's ends, docile and obedient, Mo to the poisonous, Yingyinggougou, make a laughing stock of oneself before experts, cockiness, give an expert cause for langhter, Ah Shun Yung taken, flatter greet, Flatter Song from, overweening, Chengyanhouse