Events: Wife forced me cold bed on a small nanny
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One day weekend, she called to say she was not home for the night. I thought she really did not come back, so he and a small nurse happily do that. Fortunately, we do first was unable to go ahead, otherwise, the outcome may worse the ...
Her name is Luo Xiaojuan, a nurse in a hospital in Hefei. And her knowledge by accident. On one occasion, colleagues hospitalized, the relationship between colleagues and I in particular iron, so he went to the hospital carrying a bag of fruit. That happens to be Luo Xiaojuan duty, my colleagues and I exchanged greetings with a few words, just sit down at the bedside shortly after she came in carrying a tray. She came to me, lying in bed, I washed my colleagues smiled and gave him a little amount of body temperature, and then asked a few to drifted away.
Although I only had time to look at her, but she left me the impression that has been remarkably good. She's so elegant posture, gait so light, smile and voice, and both are so sweet, just like from the Dai's "Rainy" out of the lilac in the same girl. I thought to ponder, look at her age, must have just graduated from nursing school, perhaps not yet had time to talk about her boyfriend. If that's the case, really great. Because I have no girlfriend, and she is the girl of my dreams. Although I was born in rural areas, Luo Xiaojuan is a city girl, but I am a confident man, I believe that if they work hard, I can happen, no matter to her.
I went to hospitals in my love carefully planned program, coincidentally, another of my colleagues in this room just out of the hospital patients, so the huge ward only me and my colleagues, which undoubtedly gave me access to Luo Xiaojuan provides more freedom. The first day, Luo Xiaojuan to send medicine, I have something all right, and her cotton. Her work is probably not too busy, simply stood there and I chatted up.
In the afternoon when Luo Xiaojuan to send medicine, we fared very familiar.
In this way, soak for a few days in the hospital and I Luo Xiaojuan slowly cooked up. To colleagues in hospital that day, I made up my mind to take advantage of her last chance to send medicine, slipped her a letter. In the letter, I beautiful strokes, gently talk to her about her love of my heart, hope to make friends with her.
A few days later, I received a letter from the Luo Xiaojuan. Her words and her people, small, graceful, shows a shy critical system. In the letter she said she received my letter was surprised, because we do not, after all, deep interaction, not quite understanding each other, while she had no boyfriend, but I do not rashly promise as a girls, marriage is a major event. However, in the few days with my contacts, my first impression of her good, so she felt as long as I am sincere, she can consider me at one place, to be a normal friend ... ...
I am sending you this letter exudes a faint aroma of read it again, word by word to try to figure out her thoughts, and finally decided to act boldly. I went to the shop and buy a big bunch of flowers, waiting in her early work every day to pass. He waited about half an hour, and she saw her wearing a red windbreaker riding a silver bike to coming here I was. Cycling more than ten meters away from my place, she saw me, and then get off with me playing the greeting.
She was a bright girl, and soon she accept my flowers. Soon I asked her to eat a meal, and she readily agreed. Since then, Gesanchaiwu, I would ask her out, not eating, is to see the film, no longer is with her shopping, parks.
In frequent contact, and we know each other slowly deepened, I feel I have the impression that she is getting better, they boldly propose to her. She accepted me, six months later, she became my wife.
Luo Xiaojuan is a pure girl, married she told me frankly that she knew me before, only a love experience. It was her time in nursing school, then, every afternoon after school hours, there are a bunch of boys so they keep out there, and then cheek Coushang and accosted them. Later, the gang of the most handsome boy in that, it becomes her boyfriend.
However, they did a good month, and once at night she accompanied her mother to walk in the park, they saw the boy affectionate arm around another girl came from in front of her. So, she and the boy parted. Since then, she can not easily believe that man again until he came to me.
Here, I joked with her, how easily do you trust me to do? Luo Xiaojuan said first saw you, I think you are a trustworthy man, so your confusion, the Shangliaozeichuan. I tease her, how called Shangliaozeichuan, I was a thief it? She said, you do not a thief? I said, I stole you? She was shy to say, stole my heart!
I can feel, Luo Xiaojuan is my love, get married, she left her heart all over to me. She is a more traditional woman, very virtuous, never let me do a little housework, she said, men do not live, a man by her dry on it. Every day I come home, you can eat hot meals. She did the rice is very fragrant, and I can feel my appetite after marriage than before, mostly, and I even worry that this continues I will get fat.
After dinner, I sat on the sofa reading the newspaper, she went to Xiguo dishwashing. So busy these, like a cat like her, cuddle with me in my arms watching TV.
I'm her all along, things at home, regardless of size, and she heard me, the good I can not wait to get her up inside. In the sexual life between husband and wife, although she has played a relatively passive role, but in my guide, she will soon take the initiative to meet me.
Our sex life is very frequent, and very harmonious. For the two love each other, is indeed a paradise for life ah! This is not married, no love, man, it is difficult to experience.
I'm very obsessed with her, married a long time, I can also feel the ecstatic love that feeling. During that time, my only her mind, her gentle, her thoughtfulness, her seductive body.
Even at work, I would want her at every turn, just think of her, no matter how tired, I will feel very relaxed and rebellion to dry faster and better. I was a secretary in the unit where the work of that time, the total leadership of the articles I write boast more literary talent than ever before. Will be led by praise, I am very proud, that this credit should be recorded in his wife's head.
Work, I will not delay the moment to go home to catch. If you are riding a bike, I would tread very fast car, but if it is on the bus, I will praying do not traffic. I must see his wife as soon as possible, I want a good look at her, I want to hold her, kiss her, if she is willing, I would like to do before dinner at her and her first love.
Married years is radiant glow of my life the day, energy is especially powerful sexuality especially strong because of the existence of life become so colorful and vibrant, I felt as happy as in a dream.
However, because of long indulgence, my body began to slowly decline, began to thin cheeks, deep eyes, a pair of over-indulgence look. Colleagues rushed to half-jokingly half-seriously said: Hey, man, too much groundwater pits, the ground will sink, the building will collapse, not how the line recharge? Like my colleagues knock jokes, like the alarm in my head, I look red in the face, I do not understand this truth, but to the actual situation is often unable to control their own will and behavior fills the wonderful sex I stop.
Pregnancy after the first 3 months and 3 months, the wife is determined to not let me touch her.
For children, I had teeth bulging. Whenever I see the way I feel all cramped up, the wife is always comforting me, saying that after the birth of a child, she would take compensation for me.
His wife is not a diary before, but since the pregnancy, she wrote every day during pregnancy diary. Her stomach every move the little guy, unavoidably, are recorded in a dense diary. When the child kicks her foot, and when the naughty little thing somersaults in her stomach, and she are all on record.
Once, after I read her diary with her jokes, my wife, you remember those kids that are not going to _set_tle the account after it, he (she) is now a total of how many feet kicking you? When he was born, we are not so much have to kick his feet, or somersaults in his belly?
Was originally a joke, who knows his wife provoked angry confused. She said cold face, look you, you look like a father with the children say such things, is really no big or little, in the future but also how to _set_ a good example to the children!
Since the pregnancy, his wife's temper suddenly become big again. Regardless of what she encountered before, will not get angry, and now these days, casual joke, she would get angry at me somehow. At first I do not understand how this is going, then specifically looked at this information, only know that almost all women during pregnancy will have made the performance of undetermined origin, which is a normal physiological response.
I began to learn to thoughtful wife, always careful, try not to make mistakes, or that she was angry with, but to affect fetal development, ah! Now only one child, we are particular about the prenatal and postnatal care, my father did, it should deal with these things okay!
In the decision before pregnancy, the wife and I always said she wanted a girl. My boy girl does not matter, since his wife wanted a daughter so, I also looking forward to our children is a daughter. 9 months later, his wife got his wish, and she gave birth to a daughter.
Little guy is so cute, she smiles, every move, and soon occupied all the thoughts of his wife. Ya Ya in dialogue with his daughter, the wife feel like a boy again. A woman in her motherly nature to an extreme, only to speak, is the daughter thing, since she did not have time to take into account my feelings again. Requirements put to me, turned a deaf ear.
She seems a very good reason: we fell asleep next to her, carried away in case we have sex, ignoring the next daughter, pressing her how to do? Moreover, her daughter is still so small, always inseparable from the mother's care, to patronize the sex all day long, neglected daughter, we still are competent parents?
To me the words to her attention, she told me about such a tragedy, she said one of her colleagues, friends, son of 3 months, when children make the quilt covered his nose, so the parents discovered that suffocated the child was hit alive. "They must have forgotten when the next love of children, and finally suffocated the children alive. Maybe, or do they stand up crushed to death of it! Finally gave birth to a son, it is so dead, you say they should have much regret ah! "his wife said that speculation.
I do not blame the wife, even though the reasons for this and that she refused to have sex with me. I know that some women have a baby, it will happen "frigidity" and other obstacles, the typical symptom is devoted to all love their children, their sex lives are a burden, or even disgust.
In fact, it is far from his wife worry about "fear of pressing children" so simple, there are deeper reasons: because a few thousand years of feudal thinking, people are mostly talking about sex, especially a woman's sexual desire is suppressed, they initiative of the demand that would be regarded as "not serious" and "whore." Correspondingly, their marriage is also in order to continue the family line only as an, whom have children and had to do. The concept of sex bias, so that they stay away from sexual pleasure, sexual pleasure, resulting in a de facto separation of sex and love.
His wife never want to admit it, her excuse is always tight around the child, such as she was afraid of my child's sleep snoring, and later moved to the next room and even let me sleep. For children's healthy growth, although I do not want to sub-bed, and his wife, but had to do so. Points of the beds, our sex life even less.
His wife has his own practice became a great mother clone no desire, in addition to her daughter, she could not get anything interested. Since the separation, she has never told me that they have their own desires, even in my occasional plea agreement and I the same room, like her, like routine, perfunctory absently me, made me lose my mind at all.
There were times when the kids go to bed, I managed to lure her to my bedroom. Just entered her body, she pushes me, like a house caught on fire like, cried in panic, no, no, if the warm (her pet name) woke up to how to do? I must go and see! And she ignored my feelings and put on my clothes and ran out of the bedroom.
Toss a few times that I dare not interested in sex life. With sex, the only suppress their own, it would not wait any longer to resolve through masturbation. I am just 30 years old, his wife was 26 years old, for whom we are in a more normal stage of physiological needs, but we have almost no sex life between, and this incredible Xiangqilaijiu people think, feel afraid.
Modern marriage, sex and love should be the harmony and harmonious sex life not only help couples to deepen love, but also to couple physical and mental health. Although I feel less sexual frequency, has affected our feelings between husband and wife, but married a few years, and we were inseparable from each other, although the components of love may be weakened, but between us more difficult to give a family.
After giving birth, in addition to no interest in sex, the wife of another change, that is, justifiably transform itself into a slovenly lazy woman.
We just got married was I, his wife's hobby is the largest and dress up their own housework, her clothes, though not famous, but she is tasteful woman, she knew how to choose according to their body features clothing and know how to mix color, What color Rights styles you, speaking of a _set_ of, I do not understand. In short, she chose those clothes, such as specially tailored for her like, how to look how pleasing to the eye.
Can have a baby, she's the good tradition of all was thrown into the winds, and now she just likes the company of large pajamas, even bothered to go out replace. Reason is that children do to let her busy, and got the time to worry about such trifles? Besides now have children, become a Huanglian Po, who will care about her this? Did not see her face and comb your hair not to carelessly dressed in pajamas holding his daughter in the downstairs neighbors engaged in small talk, I felt embarrassed for her.
I like dressed, groomed woman, the wife is getting me down. I could not help but remind her not to wear pajamas will we be able to run outside? I remind her angry, even accused me of a little man and need to over. See her angry, I try to make her, and joked with her, men like beautiful women love to dress up, so you do not worry about another woman I was hook to go?
Who would have thought his wife was conceited, "Well," a cry, and continue to go its own way. She always believed that she had used her beauty to me "stuck", so dare to live in peace lazy Huanglian Po's life. If I betrayed her, it only shows that I am a man to such a man, is also worth treasure? Although I am not the kind of ramshackle man, but saw a beautiful woman in the street, my heart will always be something missing, and sometimes even dreams.
Such a woman as a wife, a few in our lives, especially in women after the birth of a child. This time, women tend to be such a psychological: First, "safe" mentality, that "revolution" has been successful, can horses Nanshan, so dress casually, no longer pay attention to modification. Second is the creation of slack psychological, is not "strict demands on themselves," all so-so and just.
Heart of beauty is human, what can the wife was no longer interested in the U.S. Yeah ugly, her eyes only daughter. Not only that, the wife of the home began tinkering up. Before the house is always spotless, has now become like a kennel, where touch is gray, go where the dirty clothes are eyeful.
Every day, if she 8:30 to go to work, it must be 8:10 to get up, and then conveniently start from the clo_set_ to wear a dress, rushed into the bathroom tidy at random, put on yesterday, through the dirty shoes out hastily. After work, she no longer think about what to do dishes, scrambled eggs are always only tomatoes, or carrots, Pork, or is the disc for me to take cucumber or boiled peanuts.
I repeatedly reminded her that this is live, food to pay attention to nutritional balance, a reasonable match, so how can I improvise? After listening to her, not sulking, that is simply not answer me. If I accidentally offended her, she would apart from anything else, hold on to her daughter back to her parents, have to let me come Highlighting the spirit, or she determined not to go home.
Well, how is a woman after marriage like? What untouchables!
"Liu Ren and his wife Mazhuo long time no sex. Although the marriage, Liu Ren is so infatuated with the pursuit of beauty poet Mazhuo, but soon after the marriage, how he was not here with her touch. One time, Liu Ren seen on the street After a sexy woman, he ran back home, apart from anything else Mazhuo pressure on the sofa Nannvzhishi did that a long absence. "
This scene took place in the North Village, novel writer, "Mazhuo love" inside. In fact, do not read this novel before, between my wife and I had a similar thing happened. Then by chance a chance, I read this novel, before we know what happened to me, in fact, already happened to someone else before.
One weekend, I'm bored after lunch to a pack of cigarettes out of the door Chuaizhuo (wife will not let me smoke at home, she said that it will affect her health, I usually have to smoke downstairs.) Down the stairs, I scanned the side where there Xizhe Yan chess.
Side of the road went under a tree, they saw two old men sitting on a small stool in there playing chess, I was standing next to the saw for a while, one moves to the next very smelly old man sticks the recipe. I watched under the command of a comeback he will, in this crucial moment, I suddenly heard someone ask around. Is a sweet female voice. I can not help but raised his head, in front stood a slim stylish girl.
The girl aged about 20 years old, tall, for wearing short skirts, so I can see her legs are white, as white as jade fat in general. Girl keep a scarf over hair, cheek a bit like a movie star Zhang Ziyi, but her big eyes, a bit like Zhao Wei's eyes, more attractive, her breasts are full, the clothes, holding up like a short cut.
I am startled by startled, to be warm pressure of cross God told her to go in the direction, the girl smiled and said thanks to me, and then twisted waist, with an aroma left. Looking at the girls leave sections of the figure, my heart a hot, an unquenchable urge to clog the body along the lower abdomen. I leave the old man two dog eat dog, and quickly ran to the house.
Home, the wife taking a bath, listening to the bathroom came the sound of rushing water, and my desire even stronger, and I squeezed into the bathroom cheek ... ...
Soon, the two of us naked on the whole body twisted together, listening to her moan slightly, I was so excited to be covered in the blood vessels burst. Large bathroom mirror, I saw her eyes slightly closed, his face full of girlish blush, this time, she is very beautiful.
This is own daughter, my wife's first orgasm. But let me sad is that, since then, this made me feel the passion lofty, it could not be found. Although we occasionally have every couple of months on a one-time life, but every time I looked at his wife's naked, looking at the familiar skin was dull, I could not find in the bathroom that day, the impulse feeling. Slowly, I began to hate do not like even a little something that between husband and wife had. I doubt, I have a problem with sexual function.
Asexual marriage status of the face, the wife has always been one of indifference. She has eight children now tell me that even if life did not love her, she would not think about that. She plausibly said, since the child, she almost forgot to do that, but also to work all day, we need to do housework, life is trivial enough, and thinking of those who determined to do it?
I really admire his wife's state, she probably has his own practice Buddha now! However, as a man, I did better than a woman "good for nothing" some. Six did not net me, and always will be plagued by sexual impulse, an impulse, I restored the pre-marriage masturbation habits.
Has always been reticent about the "sex", the original actually in people's minds in "ease and" status. On the one hand, marital asexual; the other hand, extramarital affairs, mistresses, online dating and everywhere. Although I have not fallen into an affair (in my opinion, this is very troublesome pieces of things), mistresses (and I rely on people who pay to eat, can not afford to package is also package ah), online dating (online that it can not really) the point, but now I'm drunk all day anesthesia in alcohol, is a vice not it?
Because the relationship between my wife and I not very good, so the wife often go shopping after work in about what my colleagues, and generally have little less than eight or nine back. And she had a habit, that is, before the temporary home is generally the first cell phone call to the nurse and tell her about some home, so she waited for her to go back to eat good food. I know, eat, or second, mainly because her eldest temper at work, to handle handle others, by the way Shiver impressive Bale.
In this way, every time I first home from work, out of boredom, all right, I often pulling and small homely nanny or something. But the nameless one to two to go, and I even had a little bit between the nanny relationship.
Sexual relations between us in such a context is naturally occurring in the face of innocent young housekeeper, I unreservedly to her about her marriage frustration and annoyance. She never knew I had so many pains buried in the heart, obviously very surprised. To be honest, I went to Hefei for so many years, is the first time so freely to her a woman, talk of being suppressed for too long the depression and feelings of marriage, which is inconceivable in the past, because I will first themselves in the subconscious high above the top of a small nanny.
Finally, our hidden secrets or was she found, the cause is and the small nanny every time I do such a thing, always to use condoms, because the young housekeeper not married, and if that time, what happened, it may bad. My wife and I rarely have sex, condoms are to her from the hospital, and I and when to use each time a small nanny to his wife back from out the box of condoms, emergency use, not afterwards replenish cover. One day she was cleaning up the drawer, do not know how condoms found several small, so that in mind for how long, and played a trick on me and the small things shake out nanny.
One day weekend, she called to say she was not home for the night. I thought she really did not come back, so he and a small nurse happily do that. Fortunately, we do first was unable to go ahead, otherwise, the outcome may even worse, because to 8 o'clock, when his wife suddenly returned. Usually she usually knock, this time she was straight with a key to open the door. At that time I was sitting in the living room a small nanny while she watching TV, but the nanny is a very casual small sit on my lap, and we are not even prepared a little bit.
I was also luck that can muddle through. Buyiburao but she said to me: You see, these two boxes of condoms to find time to make you faster, and you do not admit it. Then she launched crazy, from the back room to drag out the little nanny, while ripping her side to force her to tell the truth. Nanny is not life and death but the small confession. But calm down when his wife, she calmly said, Well, since you would not say that I find the evidence to show you.
I do not know what she is looking for evidence, and she went into the kitchen, I do not know what she wanted, just in the back. God, she was turning the equipment in plastic bags of garbage! I was pulling up the heart and how she knew I used a condom, where to throw?
She suddenly turned her face that you smell shameless this country bumpkin, actually, and the smell nanny adultery, but also refuses to acknowledge, either acknowledge you today, you see, I spared you, I will go to your organization for all people say that you and our family to the nanny adultery!
To this point, I had to admit. Wife immediately rushed wildly like a madman to hit me a slap in the face, then she grabbed a shovel to chase cooking hit me. See the small things before this nanny is not good, have taken the opportunity to take things on their own sneak out. Yeah, I had no opportunity to escape, only to let her vent her head, you see, my neck still keep a scar.
Hey, we both did not sleep that night, she had been crying and asked me why, why I and a small nanny adultery, she is ashamed of my behavior, she said, if you and a culture, levels of a beautiful woman I do not have a relationship what to say, how can you so degrading? What is a small nanny?
Since I and the small things brought to light after the nanny, my wife and I's relationship has become strained. Now, I'm getting afraid to go home. After work, I like and some friends and friends to the plates of side dishes, in a small pub to talk while drinking wine and rambling. I began to like this live in dreams of living in your eyes are dim in the space-time forgot forgotten self, but forget the home of his wife and daughter waiting for me.
Previously, I was recognized as a family man in the unit, but now how do I become like this? I do not know how it is, I only know that I did to change, irritability, depressed mood, want to see what angry. In fact, I change and more than one person, before the gentle wife to change, no longer gentle and lovely, has become a very powerful woman, a stranger I looked at the woman. I know, this is the lack of communication between us has long been to blame.
We have become each other, bit of trivia for life will keep arguing, and then upgrade to the hands from the fight. Once I huff, even sprained her arm, and she put the bloody grasp my face, why I could not go out a few days, only to call the unit, pretended to be sick can not go to work. Married at the beginning of tempting lingering, became irreconcilable after marriage, our marriage has become precarious uncertain and therefore, the danger of falling apart at any time.
Okay, I often see online. See a recent online news turned out to be that marriage is × × sexless marriage. × × is my favorite female singer, so I gave her sexless marriage special attention.
In 1984, a male director for a movie and get to know the female singer. Enthusiastic pursuit of the male directors, female singer fell in love. A year later, married female singer and male directors. However, being immersed in the romance of the female singers, do not realize that the marriage seems to suggest from the out_set_ of the crisis and misery.
Male directors in marriage to the singer made a "sexless marriage" idea, his singer said: We should maintain the exchange of Platonic, not to the mixed feelings of any impurities, can not be any blasphemy and constraints. Because they cause are yet to be developed, to work together to fully concentrate on work in ... ...
Maybe love is too infatuated, too inflexible, perhaps a woman in love the brain easily slow, female singer even agreed to no sex marriage. They shared a room, not bed's clothes; they have the name of husband and wife, but no husband and wife in reality.
After marriage, female singer to sing love songs for people. Male directors will become the "Taiwan's new movie" The strength of the go-getters. He directed several films masterpiece winning international awards. Each of his films are integrated into the singer to pay without complaint.
In the meantime, male directors heard rumors from time to time. Female singers do not believe, do not want to believe. "Sexless marriage" quietly rubbed off time of 10 years. Male directors finally a showdown to the singer: he had an affair. Loving relationship between husband and wife on the surface collapsed, only to find Tianhundian singer. Male directors to conclude their marriage: "10 years of emotion, a blank." And the like to maintain a marriage of love all the paid female singer, but in exchange for a paper divorce papers.
Female singer and male directors are famous, because celebrity, so their sexless marriage more vulnerable to people's attention, and ordinary people of the sexless marriage, mostly by their own hide in the dark depths of the. Recently, there have been reports that Beijing, Xian, Wuhan, Shenyang and other cities of the divorce cases increased significantly, the judge asked the parties why the divorce mediation, more than 70% of couples responded with one word, that is, "personality clashes."
Although the divorce has not elaborate the reasons for substandard, but the marriage counselors, "personality clashes" contains the words Unspoken subtext of many, the most important one is the "harmony of life", the result will inevitably lead to "asexual marriage" and "sexless marriage." Thus, it was "sensational" to make Chinese society has entered a "sexless marriage" era.
There is no doubt, sex is a happy, joy, and enjoy the process, although it is not a panacea to solve life, distress, it is an Oasis of a happy life. But for various reasons, we are very difficult to enjoy this marriage, "Oasis", on the contrary, but this nectar of our God-given, as a cup of bitter drink.
A survey shows that sexual behavior of the average number of person-years, only 69 times, while the United States and Europe is 100 times. Now, 45 years old man's sex life at frequencies below 1 per month, it was known of the "unemployed"; and men over the age of 55, an average of 1 year of life is not that these people were referred to as sexual The "off." These "laid off, unemployed," the man the more the more asexual marriage.
Now, I'm off to in such a state, I have often thought about divorce, you want the same as the rebirth of the Firebird build their new life. Each one can be that cute little face her daughter, a wife that innocent eyes to see, I think the idea of the overall collapse of all. Asexual marriage is painful, but not how a single parent than a child living in the family more pain. I am endlessly suppress their only hope to return home through the pressure and the surface integrity and innocence of childhood, carefree child.
No sexual life, is sad. A normal man, even to his millions of as_set_s and make him a eunuch, he certainly did not want to, because his life will lose meaning. Sex is a sign of health, former U.S. President George Bush in his campaign speeches declared that he was still having sex 70 years old. I am now 35 years old, however, from 70-year-old still has a long way to go. Can let me down, I was ahead of the end of their Flirt. 70-year-old can have sex, it is a great Bush Declaration, for me, but out of reach.
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