魂飞魄丧

Explanation: With the "wits." 　　Source: Yuan Guan Hanqing "Butterfly Dream" off the second surprise of the soul my soul fly funeral, taking my power to make tendons Shu. " 　　Examples: Public servant who see him say it one day if not days, scared ~. ★ Qing Cao Xueqin, "Dream of Red Mansions," the seventh back