过屠门而大嚼

Explanation: Tu Door: butcher. Analogy to myself and not hand, had to use unrealistic approach to comfort myself. 　　Usage: -Linked; as object; containing derogatory 　　Source: Han Huan Tan, "New Theory": "People hear Chang'an music, while the West is out to laugh; know that delicious meat, then the door munching on carcasses." 　　Examples: At least her mother to the children to surprise on the road widened eyes, Liaoju "~." (Mao Dun, "New Year") Thesaurus:  Guo Tu ravin