自顾不暇

Explanation: Leisure idle. Had a chance to patronize their own. The absence of power and then take care of others. 　　Usage: The main predicate; as predicate; for personal or collective 　　Source: Qing Li Ruzhen "Flowers in the Mirror" Sixty-back today, although a little life, but a leg to stand, how to _set_tle his brother and another place. " 　　Examples: It can rely on to Manchuria for the Down? He ~,-What is the Han Chinese. ★ Ching Tien-Hua Chen, "Idiom" back to the seventh 　　Results: When the matchmaker blind sister 　　Postscript: When the matchmaker blind sister 　　Riddle: Man is man Thesaurus:  be worldly wise and play safe, Mud boat cross the river, itself cannot say for sure, like a clay idol fording a river— hardly able to save oneself(let alone anyone else), Caoren fight a fire Antonym Group:  a hand's turn, Xiaganyidan, Happiness lies in rendering help to others. be amused at, put one's hand in one's pocket, heal the wounded and rescue the dying, To save others, weed out the wicked and let the law-abiding citizen live in peace, Chucanquhui, Put your shoulder to the wheel.