鼓盆之戚

Explanation: Old refers to the death of his wife. 　　Usage: Partial official; as object; that very sad death of his wife 　　Source: Qin Zhuang, "Zhuang Zi and Music": "Chuang Tzu's wife died, Keiko hanging of Zhuangzi the side Jiju drums and singing bowl." 　　Examples: Qi poor family, but also ~. (Qing Pu, "Strange Little Xie")