退避三舍

Explanation: Homes: in ancient times to march ten miles of distance for a house. Ninety years active concessions. Metaphors give way and avoid, to avoid conflict. 　　Usage: Supplemental; as the predicate attribute; containing derogatory 　　Source: Pre Hengyu "Zuo Xi public twenty-three years": "If the king of soul, have anti-Jin, Jin Chu Zhibing, met in the Central Plains, the provision of king three homes." 　　Examples: I said sister, however, only ~ the. (Qing Wu Jian "Strange two decades," forty-back) 　　Riddle: Again and again to housing 　　Story: Spring and Autumn Period, Jin Xiangong listen to calumny, to kill the Prince Nobuo, Nobuo's brother and sent to arrest Chong Er. Chong Er heard the news, escaped from the state of Jin, a fugitive for ten years. After innumerable hardships, Chong Er to the state of Chu. Chucheng Wang Chong in the future that there will be great as to meet with the country group of the ceremony, to be him as the guest of honor. One day, Chu asked Chong Er, the two drink spilled Xu Hua, the atmosphere was very harmonious. Chu, Chong suddenly asked: "If one day you return to Jin when the monarch, how to repay me?" Chong Lueyisisuo said: "The beauties, jewelry and silk, Your Majesty, you have plenty of feathers, ivory, skins, abounds in the state of Chu, Jin There is not any rare items your majesty? "the king said:" The son was too modest. Nevertheless, you still could have said to me the total of the right? "Chong replied smile : "If you care. really able to return to the ruling, I would like to friendship with your country. If one day, Jin Chuguo war between, I have ordered the army to retreat three (a round is equal to ten miles), if it can not be your pardon, I am fighting with you again. "Four years later, Chong Er returned to Jin when the monarch, is the history of the famous Duke Wen of Jin. Jin in him, the increasingly powerful. 633 BC, Chu and Jin met troops in battle. Duke Wen of Jin in order to achieve his promise, ordered the army back ninety years, stationed in Chengpu. See Chu Jin back, afraid that the other side, and began chasing them. Jinjun Li of the Chu proud lightly, concentration of forces, big break Chu, achieved victory in the Battle of Chengpu. Story comes from "Zuo Xi public two years." Phrase "back away" as a metaphor does not quarrel with others, or take the initiative to make concessions. Thesaurus:  Mollified, be slick (in social intercourse); try to please everybody or offend nobody, act as go-between, work as a go-between, jib, relate, family happiness, acknowledge the corn, unite together with all the faith and dedication capable of, He Jiahuanle, heavy Ascribe Ok, give us your fist, Bamianzhenglong Antonym Group:  Not descendants, unwilling, dissatisfaction for being left alone; hate to be neglected (over looked), unwilling to let the other fellow hold the center stage, unwilling, Unwilling to lie low, scramble for power and profit, Zhengjiang emulous, scramble for power and profit, Leapfrogging, Join wait a bit, do all one can to catch up, rise and make a hot chase, After the rushed fear, cut a shine, manage call [make] white black, Exclusion 4 pick 3, make bad blood, Get the tongue moving mouth, tell tales (out of school), Xin chou Jiuhen, Jiuhen Xin Chou, all the old and recent sorrows, both open strife and veiled struggle, change more, Unimpeded, Embroidered clothes day, Baizhang success in, Continuing success, try hard to catch up, Overexert, Try to be brave to say, a notch above others