看人下菜碟儿

Explanation: Metaphor others vary. 　　Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Sixty-back: "I'm home I next three classes more noble than you, you will watch others under Caidie children. Gem to give something, you stopped in advance, could there be a yours? coax him to take this, you only if he does not recognize it! "