爱之欲其生，恶之欲其死

Explanation: Loved him, always wanted him alive; hate him, always wanted him to die. Refers to the extreme to treat people with their own likes and dislikes. 　　Usage: Complex sentence; as object clause; containing derogatory 　　Source: "Analects, XII": "For love of their life, evil desire of his death, he wanted his life, You Yu of his death, is also puzzled." 　　Examples: "For the love of life, evil desire of his death." Ye Qing He should not be a eunuch? ★ Ming Luo, "Three Kingdoms" one hundred and fifteenth back Thesaurus:  Love is Put knee, Yuan is falling all evil