爱之欲其生，恶之欲其

Explanation: Explained〗 〖loved him, always wanted him alive; hate him, always wanted him to die. Refers to the extreme to treat people with their own likes and dislikes. 　　Source: Source〗 〖"Analects, XII": "For love of their life, evil desire of his death, he wanted his life, You Yu of his death, is also puzzled." 　　Examples: Example〗 〖"Love For the students, evil desire of his death." Ye Qing He should not be a eunuch? ★ Ming Luo, "Three Kingdoms" one hundred and fifteenth back