嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗

Explanation: Feudal ethics that married women, regardless of whether her husband is good or bad, must always follow. 　　Usage: Complex sentence; as attribute, subject, clause; containing derogatory 　　Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" 81 back: "Did not you hear people say, 'marry a chicken with the chicken, marry a dog as a dog', where all of them have to do as you Sister Goddess it?" 　　Examples: Did not you hear people say ,"~", where all of them have to do as you Sister Goddess it? (Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions," the eighty-first back) Thesaurus:  Splash Hard to reverse