却之不恭

Explanation: Is: refuse. Refers to someone else's invitation, gift, etc., and if refused to appear disrespectful. 　　Usage: The main predicate; as predicate, object; often used in conjunction with not deserve 　　Source: Qin Meng Ke, "Mencius million under Chapter": "'but the but of the contemptuous', where Kazuya?" 　　Examples: We feel ~, so I let him beg. (Fen "experience hard going after") 　　Riddle: You're welcome Thesaurus:  Not deserve, Sheng Qingnanque