不抗不卑

Explanation: Resistance: arrogant; base: low, low self-esteem. Means people have the right sense of proportion, neither humble nor proud 　　Source: "Dream of Red Mansions," the fifth six back: "He is far from unhappy past into account, not against non-base, they are not, and let a good grandmother, listening to this speech he also necessary to try and explain the change for the better."