一鼻子灰
  1. to get rebuffed when trying to please
  2. be sent off with a flea in one's ear; be snubbedd; get a rebuff
    　　Explanation: Analogy rebuffed or reprehensible.
    　　Source: "Dream of Red Mansions" 55 Fortunately, Ping sister back here, did not have to smell of urine with a rebuff, as early as possible to keep them going. "