将欲取之，必先与之

Explanation: To seize what he must first give him what 　　Usage: Complex sentence; as object clause; with solid wins for the 　　Source: Han Liu Xiang, "Warring Reichert 1": "To defeat the will, must Regardless supplemented; will give in, regardless of whom will be." 　　Examples: So often the case that only the loss can not lose, this is "~" principle. ("Selected Works of Mao Zedong, Chinese revolutionary war strategy") Thesaurus:  Gu and will take, Gentle, and