儿女情长，英雄气短

Explanation: Refers to the relationship between men and women and continual, and generous spirit of depression less strenuous 　　Usage: As object, attribute; for oral 　　Source: Ming Xu Zichang "Water Margin in mind" at 18: "People often say their love Road, Yingxiongqiduan. Songgong Ming anti-human'd both words, so bear a sister Court." 　　Examples: Shui "Lovers Lovers" 21 back: "This evening, Shen Guoying to a brigade commander, leaving somewhat ~." Thesaurus:  pilferage, steal, Love on the much less gas situation, a good man caught in difficult circumstances, Love on the multi-, wind Cloudy obscured haze few, hanker after women, (said of man) to have one love affair after another, Recaozhanhua, Pirates of the dog trying to slip, Traversing it hanker after women