Once, a wife complained to me in a fight when her husband scolded her, she thought that nasty things is simply intolerable. In the next conversation, I learned that the wife had a quarrel with him in as bad a move. At first, she do not want to disrespect to the husband because of his apology, because her husband did not apologize to her. Apologize for its effort to persuade them to each other, not as another way to find a solution to the problem. I asked her, his apology (or your self-esteem) and the harmonious relationship between you which is more important. She admitted without hesitation the latter is more important. The results, not long before they broke the deadlock.