idiom > restrain one's grief Shunbian
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Restrain their grief
  Explanation: Inhibition of grief, go misfortune. Used the words of condolences to the bereaved family.
  Usage: Joint type; as predicate, object; to the words of condolences to the bereaved family
  Source: Han Dai Holy "Book of Rites under the Tan Gong": "funeral, his death matter to him; grief, Shun variable also. A gentleman who has read the beginning on."
  Examples: Wu Xiong ~, preservation Jin footer. (Qing Anonymous "Colloquial Stories Xue Tang Qiao Results sprinkled happy match")
No. 2
  Section: control; change: Incident. Inhibition of sorrow, follow misfortune. Condolences to family of the deceased to say.
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No. 3
  节哀顺变 ( jié āi shùn biàn )
  解 释 节:节制;变:事变。抑制哀伤,顺应变故。用来慰唁死者家属的话。
  出 处 《礼记·檀弓下》:“丧礼,哀戚之至也;节哀,顺变也。君子念始之者也。”
  用 法 联合式;作谓语、宾语;用来慰唁死者家属的话
  示 例 吾兄~,保全金玉之躯。(清·无名氏《西湖二集·洒雪堂巧结良缘》)