common saying : idiom > Be snobbish Dish children
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Children under the Caidie Man
  Explanation: Metaphor others vary.
  Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Sixty-back: "I'm home I next three classes more noble than you, you will watch others under Caidie children. Gem to give something, you stopped in advance, could there be a yours? coax him to take this, you only if he does not recognize it! "
Observe the guests (such as the relationship between the owner ﹑ attitudes, etc.) arranged to eat
  Observe the guests (such as identity, attitude, and the relationship between the owner, etc.) arranged to eat. Man analogy to act. "Dream of Red Mansions," the 60th back: "You will 'Man Next Caidie child'! Gem to give something, you stopped at in advance, could there be of yours?"
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No. 3
  比喻待人因人而异。
  出 处: 清·曹雪芹《红楼梦》第六十回:“我家里下三等奴才也比你高贵些的,你都会看人下菜碟儿。宝玉要给东西,你拦在头里,莫不是要了你的了?拿这个哄他,你只当他不认得呢!”