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谈嫁人
叶英儿
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Joined: 03 Jun 2006
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Location: 中国
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PostPosted: 2010-08-01 05:44:09    Post subject: 谈嫁人 Reply with quote

近几日和朋友聊天,她们都谈到女人的嫁人问题,都谈到女人如果找一个麻烦的老公,不如不要嫁人,女人嫁人是想有个幸福的生活,如果找一个不如自己的老公,不如单身,找一个有病的老公,那真是不幸,找个愚蠢的老公,那是罪过。
然后又聊到自己单位的女同事,找得老公不是有钱,就是有权,有才的比比皆是,我说现在有地位的女性找的老公都好,因为有句话,干得好,就嫁得好,干得好,也可以不用嫁人,就象皇帝的女儿不愁嫁,或学着某国总理找个有地位、能干的同性的伴侣结婚。哈哈,外国的法律想得周到,同性的人可以结婚,使那些因为种种原因,找不到异性的人,有个伙伴陪自己度过一生。人是群居动物,一个人会很难办成许多事,也会孤单、寂寞,有个人作伴,不管这个人是同性还是异性,终身有个依靠,如果年轻、有条件,也可以领养一个孩子,这样也可组成一个美好的家庭。
而异性间的组合,主要好处是能繁衍后代,使人类生生不息,这确实是值得法律保护的,而一些边缘人就没有那么幸运,他们找不到合适的对象,或没有异性可找,他们同性人完全可以组织成一个家庭,受法律保护,不会使自己孤独终身,我想如果为边缘人真正着想,应该给他们一个保护的法律条文,但在中国这还是空白。
人总是趋利避害的,婚姻的选择也是这样的,他们中总有一些人与婚姻无缘,但要照顾到这群弱势群体,我想我们更应该从多方面着手,使他们不会孤独终身。
(浙江、叶英儿)
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荷梦
进士出身


Joined: 19 Dec 2006
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Location: 湖北,黄梅
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PostPosted: 2010-08-01 19:07:39    Post subject: Reply with quote

还可以展开些,举些具体的事例,更有说服力。
不记得从哪里看到的,说婚姻如鞋,合不合适只有自己知道。各人对婚姻的要求不同,清贫的家庭未必不幸,富贵人家也未必幸福。
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叶英儿
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PostPosted: 2010-08-02 05:13:23    Post subject: 谢谢荷梦的点评。 Reply with quote

谢谢荷梦的点评。
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一身灰
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PostPosted: 2010-08-04 16:29:08    Post subject: Reply with quote

婚姻事大。形态种种。
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