耳软心活
      Explanation: Not compare yourself to any ideas that I believe other people's words.
      Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" Louise seventy-seventh that also seek return of the spring, real hope can save, but the language late slow spring, ear soft heart live, can not call the shots. "
      Examples: Louise also find that the spring is really expect to save, but the language late slow spring, ~, can not call the shots. (Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" seventy-seventh back)