善罢干休

Explanation: Good: properly; Ganxiu: willing to give up. Properly resolve disputes, not go downtown (used for negative). 　　Source: Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions," the sixty-fifth time he saw his grandmother than the Peugeot, popular children like him, he is willing to strike Ganxiu the good? " 　　Examples: Your man five feet five, so swallow ~ it? No! (Li Yingru "spring wildfire fighting ancient" chapter VII) Thesaurus:  exclude difficulties and solve dispute, exclude the difficulty and anxiety, leave the matter at that